"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Last night while watching the game @ a bar...

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First, congrats to my Redskins!!! GO SKINS!!!! :)

...while I was sitting there, there was a couple to my left, and I noticed that the woman was watching me out of the corner of her eye. She was very beautiful, very professional looking, and looked like a borderline freak to me.
Anyway, I cracked some jokes, she laughed, all the while I just wanted to throw her on the bar and tear her up.
After some time, she got up, told her guy "friend" she was leaving. I have to admit, I was kinda disappointed I didn't stop to get her number, but I don't usually ask for numbers, which is something I gotta do more of. I mean, my Skins won, my Indians won, and my Browns won so I was feeln pretty horny, and would have turned this woman on her head.
So after she leaves, and I'm chillin there drinking my beer and watching the game, the guy"friend" that the woman was with, who hasn't left yet, turns to me and says, "Dude... the woman who was sitting here with me, just called to ask me, to ask YOU, for a cigarette." ....? ...I was like, "..is she out in the parking lot?" he says "No... she's home, and wants me to run the cigarette to her...." I was like "Wha?....." ...and he says "Yeah, can you believe that?" ....I offer to give him a smoke, and he tells me he's just going to go and pick up a pack, and drop it off to her." Which had me shaking my head a little.....

But THIS, is how my sex life has been lately. If I could figure out what to do, instead of just letting it come to me, I'd probably get laid more often. lol!

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Did I miss it? I'm confused. Was he gonna go back and bang her? Why the hell would she ask him to ask you for a cigarette?

And you get horny when your team wins a game? Remind me never to watch a sporting event with you around.
 
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Yes, when my team wins I get horny. When I run into some money, I get horny too. Strange huh? ...and when women who have been drinking, want to take me home with them, also makes me horny. :)

Come to think about it... if the wind blows just right between my legs, I get horny. :)

I get horny... don't hate. :)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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He probably noticed you noticing her looking at you, and wanted to make an excuse up.
 
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Hey I live in Columbus Ohio too. What bar did this happen at? You can PM me. I can't believe you're a Cleveland fan!
 
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this is how attention hors work. they create just enough drama out of NOTHING, to get otherwise normal guys worked up enough about it to post questions on message boards. why do we feel our "horniest" around attention hors? that is one for the ages.
 
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persistent exaction said:
this is how attention hors work. they create just enough drama out of NOTHING, to get otherwise normal guys worked up enough about it to post questions on message boards. why do we feel our "horniest" around attention hors? that is one for the ages.
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She was attempting to spark some interest in The Ladies Man and connect with him thru the cigarette pretext.
She could hardly just call her chump friend and say, "' Hey friend, ask that Ladies Man guy to come around and do me."
No, no -that is NOT how women do things , they operate COVERTLY --thru the side entrance - under the radar -whatever.They get other people to take their risks for them and run their errands..
She did not want a cigarette, IF she did she could have just bought some at the 7 Eleven or at the bar ,or she could have asked the chump she was sitting with to bring her some on his way home.

She wanted to appear that she was asking for a cigarette but she really wanted Ladies Guy to come a'callin'...

A missed opportunity , man.
 
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lol I think LadiesMan, lost out to the friend she was with..LadiesMan did all the work setting her up and getting her in the mood....

and her friend bringing the cigarettes (cause a good smoke after a long night of sex is enjoyable) reaped the benefits !! I wouldn't be surprised if he made that up and used your failure as opportunity to nail her...Matter of fact that makes much more sense !! haha

Nice work Ladies-woman !!!

If I could figure out what to do, instead of just letting it come to me, I'd probably get laid more often. lol!

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GROW SOME BALLS..
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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