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like who?backbreaker said:i can think of alot of people that should have been banned before him.
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
like who?backbreaker said:i can think of alot of people that should have been banned before him.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Probably a combination of both. He was loud, rude and obnoxious, but DAMN he made for fun reading!:crackup:Mctwist4 said:So do you think he was banned for his ideas and opinions, or for his abuse of the rules on this forum?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I wonder what his arguement was about the moon landing, but my one thing that always won me the arguement of the moon landing is "Why didn't the Russians try and say that it didn't happen? Oh, wait because it happened."Deep Dish said:I think that once I completely demolished his arguments about the moon landing being a hoax that it was all over for him. :kick:![]()
If the new law 'round here takes this advice Francisco is completely fvcked!Nighthawk said:I'd support a ban on anyone whose average daily post is more than 10.
Nah, I'd have to post a hell of a lot more to bump my average up to 10 a day. Besides, who else would push peoples buttons in a positive way (even if they don't realize it) if I were gone?KarmaSutra said:If the new law 'round here takes this advice Francisco is completely fvcked!
Then again, perhaps so am I . . .:moon:
Yes, I plan to make money in this business. I have an accent so I think many in USA will think I know more about dj game than they do.fuzzx said:news flash... this site is a business and what LMS says is contrary to what the site professes. He was bad for business and they cut him out.
If you don't know it yet, SS, sosuave, lairlist and DJ's are all ways of making huge bucks and they don't like it when someone starts telling their customers that sarging is for tards and the women here aren't worth the price of admission.
Ever been to a lair meeting that sounded like an infomercial...
All the DVD's, Seminars, Guru Advice and Books are not here solely for your benefit, its big business and you not getting laid or getting laid once in awhile (using some guru's *advice*) is good for biz...
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Like you skip!Natural Player said:like who?
yeah I post alot b ut I went YEARS without posting, so it would take a while for my avg to get up to 10 a dayKarmaSutra said:If the new law 'round here takes this advice Francisco is completely fvcked!
Then again, perhaps so am I . . .:moon:
Yeah, people should be more like you, you know, that don't whine. Especially about others.Jariel said:All he did was whine, just like titman and several others.
It amazes me that someone can spend so long on these forums and not learn anything from their time here.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
SamePendo said:Yeah, people should be more like you, you know, that don't whine. Especially about others.
I don't think nominating yourself counts.amoka said:I thought LMS was nominated for moderator's position few months ago.
Only hors make gratuitous hor references. Wake up kid!! The matrix has you!!!!!KarmaSutra said:And now here come the gratuitous 'hor references. . .
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.