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like who?backbreaker said:i can think of alot of people that should have been banned before him.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
like who?backbreaker said:i can think of alot of people that should have been banned before him.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Probably a combination of both. He was loud, rude and obnoxious, but DAMN he made for fun reading!:crackup:Mctwist4 said:So do you think he was banned for his ideas and opinions, or for his abuse of the rules on this forum?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I wonder what his arguement was about the moon landing, but my one thing that always won me the arguement of the moon landing is "Why didn't the Russians try and say that it didn't happen? Oh, wait because it happened."Deep Dish said:I think that once I completely demolished his arguments about the moon landing being a hoax that it was all over for him. :kick:![]()
If the new law 'round here takes this advice Francisco is completely fvcked!Nighthawk said:I'd support a ban on anyone whose average daily post is more than 10.
Nah, I'd have to post a hell of a lot more to bump my average up to 10 a day. Besides, who else would push peoples buttons in a positive way (even if they don't realize it) if I were gone?KarmaSutra said:If the new law 'round here takes this advice Francisco is completely fvcked!
Then again, perhaps so am I . . .:moon:
Yes, I plan to make money in this business. I have an accent so I think many in USA will think I know more about dj game than they do.fuzzx said:news flash... this site is a business and what LMS says is contrary to what the site professes. He was bad for business and they cut him out.
If you don't know it yet, SS, sosuave, lairlist and DJ's are all ways of making huge bucks and they don't like it when someone starts telling their customers that sarging is for tards and the women here aren't worth the price of admission.
Ever been to a lair meeting that sounded like an infomercial...
All the DVD's, Seminars, Guru Advice and Books are not here solely for your benefit, its big business and you not getting laid or getting laid once in awhile (using some guru's *advice*) is good for biz...
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Like you skip!Natural Player said:like who?
yeah I post alot b ut I went YEARS without posting, so it would take a while for my avg to get up to 10 a dayKarmaSutra said:If the new law 'round here takes this advice Francisco is completely fvcked!
Then again, perhaps so am I . . .:moon:
Yeah, people should be more like you, you know, that don't whine. Especially about others.Jariel said:All he did was whine, just like titman and several others.
It amazes me that someone can spend so long on these forums and not learn anything from their time here.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
SamePendo said:Yeah, people should be more like you, you know, that don't whine. Especially about others.
I don't think nominating yourself counts.amoka said:I thought LMS was nominated for moderator's position few months ago.
Only hors make gratuitous hor references. Wake up kid!! The matrix has you!!!!!KarmaSutra said:And now here come the gratuitous 'hor references. . .
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.