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like who?backbreaker said:i can think of alot of people that should have been banned before him.
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
like who?backbreaker said:i can think of alot of people that should have been banned before him.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Probably a combination of both. He was loud, rude and obnoxious, but DAMN he made for fun reading!:crackup:Mctwist4 said:So do you think he was banned for his ideas and opinions, or for his abuse of the rules on this forum?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I wonder what his arguement was about the moon landing, but my one thing that always won me the arguement of the moon landing is "Why didn't the Russians try and say that it didn't happen? Oh, wait because it happened."Deep Dish said:I think that once I completely demolished his arguments about the moon landing being a hoax that it was all over for him. :kick:![]()
If the new law 'round here takes this advice Francisco is completely fvcked!Nighthawk said:I'd support a ban on anyone whose average daily post is more than 10.
Nah, I'd have to post a hell of a lot more to bump my average up to 10 a day. Besides, who else would push peoples buttons in a positive way (even if they don't realize it) if I were gone?KarmaSutra said:If the new law 'round here takes this advice Francisco is completely fvcked!
Then again, perhaps so am I . . .:moon:
Yes, I plan to make money in this business. I have an accent so I think many in USA will think I know more about dj game than they do.fuzzx said:news flash... this site is a business and what LMS says is contrary to what the site professes. He was bad for business and they cut him out.
If you don't know it yet, SS, sosuave, lairlist and DJ's are all ways of making huge bucks and they don't like it when someone starts telling their customers that sarging is for tards and the women here aren't worth the price of admission.
Ever been to a lair meeting that sounded like an infomercial...
All the DVD's, Seminars, Guru Advice and Books are not here solely for your benefit, its big business and you not getting laid or getting laid once in awhile (using some guru's *advice*) is good for biz...
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Like you skip!Natural Player said:like who?
yeah I post alot b ut I went YEARS without posting, so it would take a while for my avg to get up to 10 a dayKarmaSutra said:If the new law 'round here takes this advice Francisco is completely fvcked!
Then again, perhaps so am I . . .:moon:
Yeah, people should be more like you, you know, that don't whine. Especially about others.Jariel said:All he did was whine, just like titman and several others.
It amazes me that someone can spend so long on these forums and not learn anything from their time here.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
SamePendo said:Yeah, people should be more like you, you know, that don't whine. Especially about others.
I don't think nominating yourself counts.amoka said:I thought LMS was nominated for moderator's position few months ago.
Only hors make gratuitous hor references. Wake up kid!! The matrix has you!!!!!KarmaSutra said:And now here come the gratuitous 'hor references. . .
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.