"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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gonnamakeit

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Starts June 15th

Just post if you wanna join and what you want to get out of the bootcamp.
So far the members are
gonnamakeit
pimp2b
jbcallin88
newandimproved
coffin
moon-wolf
little italy
adam b
suaveplayer
darles chickens
lloyd
big poppa
senor juan
get ready
i'm in the mood
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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scrouds

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Ok, I need to do one of these bootcamps. I want to join. I want to open my eyes, come out of the social box I've built around myself.

I'm usually all talk and think I have a good foothold on theory. I just have trouble pushing it out into the real world. I've always held that there are 4 stages to understanding.

1) Knowing someone out in the world can do something.
2) Understanding that you, individually and as yourself, can do it.
3) Truly believing that you can do it, on demand
4) Actually going out and doing it.

I'm stuck at 3. I'm hoping the bootcamp cam remove the wall I have between 3 and 4.

Let me know what I need to do.
 
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gonnamakeit

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gonnamakeit
pimp2b
jbcallin88
newandimproved
coffin
moon-wolf
little italy
adam b
suaveplayer
darles chickens
lloyd
big poppa
senor juan
get ready
i'm in the mood
get with it
blue hanger
scrouds

Lookin awesome, 2 more days to sign up!
 
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djinhell

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Hmmm, I think doing this bootcamp will do me the world of good!!

count me in!! :up:

DJ IN HELL
 
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djinhell

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Oh, and what I expect to get out of it:-

Personal growth, and real confidence. I no longer want to feel intimated in social situations by anyone..male or female.

I feel I have the potential to be a smooth DJ, but just need the push to get out there and put it to practice.

Like scrouds said above, I too have a good foothold in the theory...time for some practical!!! :cool:

DJ IN HELL
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Maxtro

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What the hell I'll join this thing.

I need to improve in so many ways there isn't any point in listing them.
 
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