"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Last call summer bootcamp

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gonnamakeit

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Starts June 15th

Just post if you wanna join and what you want to get out of the bootcamp.
So far the members are
gonnamakeit
pimp2b
jbcallin88
newandimproved
coffin
moon-wolf
little italy
adam b
suaveplayer
darles chickens
lloyd
big poppa
senor juan
get ready
i'm in the mood
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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scrouds

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Ok, I need to do one of these bootcamps. I want to join. I want to open my eyes, come out of the social box I've built around myself.

I'm usually all talk and think I have a good foothold on theory. I just have trouble pushing it out into the real world. I've always held that there are 4 stages to understanding.

1) Knowing someone out in the world can do something.
2) Understanding that you, individually and as yourself, can do it.
3) Truly believing that you can do it, on demand
4) Actually going out and doing it.

I'm stuck at 3. I'm hoping the bootcamp cam remove the wall I have between 3 and 4.

Let me know what I need to do.
 
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gonnamakeit

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gonnamakeit
pimp2b
jbcallin88
newandimproved
coffin
moon-wolf
little italy
adam b
suaveplayer
darles chickens
lloyd
big poppa
senor juan
get ready
i'm in the mood
get with it
blue hanger
scrouds

Lookin awesome, 2 more days to sign up!
 
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djinhell

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Hmmm, I think doing this bootcamp will do me the world of good!!

count me in!! :up:

DJ IN HELL
 
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djinhell

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Oh, and what I expect to get out of it:-

Personal growth, and real confidence. I no longer want to feel intimated in social situations by anyone..male or female.

I feel I have the potential to be a smooth DJ, but just need the push to get out there and put it to practice.

Like scrouds said above, I too have a good foothold in the theory...time for some practical!!! :cool:

DJ IN HELL
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Maxtro

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What the hell I'll join this thing.

I need to improve in so many ways there isn't any point in listing them.
 
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