"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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gonnamakeit

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Starts June 15th

Just post if you wanna join and what you want to get out of the bootcamp.
So far the members are
gonnamakeit
pimp2b
jbcallin88
newandimproved
coffin
moon-wolf
little italy
adam b
suaveplayer
darles chickens
lloyd
big poppa
senor juan
get ready
i'm in the mood
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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scrouds

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Ok, I need to do one of these bootcamps. I want to join. I want to open my eyes, come out of the social box I've built around myself.

I'm usually all talk and think I have a good foothold on theory. I just have trouble pushing it out into the real world. I've always held that there are 4 stages to understanding.

1) Knowing someone out in the world can do something.
2) Understanding that you, individually and as yourself, can do it.
3) Truly believing that you can do it, on demand
4) Actually going out and doing it.

I'm stuck at 3. I'm hoping the bootcamp cam remove the wall I have between 3 and 4.

Let me know what I need to do.
 
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gonnamakeit

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gonnamakeit
pimp2b
jbcallin88
newandimproved
coffin
moon-wolf
little italy
adam b
suaveplayer
darles chickens
lloyd
big poppa
senor juan
get ready
i'm in the mood
get with it
blue hanger
scrouds

Lookin awesome, 2 more days to sign up!
 
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djinhell

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Hmmm, I think doing this bootcamp will do me the world of good!!

count me in!! :up:

DJ IN HELL
 
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djinhell

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Oh, and what I expect to get out of it:-

Personal growth, and real confidence. I no longer want to feel intimated in social situations by anyone..male or female.

I feel I have the potential to be a smooth DJ, but just need the push to get out there and put it to practice.

Like scrouds said above, I too have a good foothold in the theory...time for some practical!!! :cool:

DJ IN HELL
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Maxtro

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What the hell I'll join this thing.

I need to improve in so many ways there isn't any point in listing them.
 
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