I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
She's good for a 44 year old (exceptional) but even with some supporting clothes and a distinct lack of rackage she still manages to look saggy, thick and generally worn out. If not for "who she is" no one I know would look twice at her.Francisco d'Anconia said:
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
This doesn't make any sense. How does his choice to spend time with a celebrity make him more or less likely to be honest?TheShineDog said:
Like I said, the only appeal they had previously was that they were:bigjohnson said:
Correct, I work on a college campus, I'd say 95 percent of the women I see walking across campus are hotter than the Olsen twins and Brittney Spears, and frankly, it's not even close ... and this isn't Arizona State either.bigjohnson said:
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Hey squirrels, do you have a problem reading? Or maybe you need to improve your comprehension skill. Did you even understand the intent of the post? Obviously not.squirrels said:
I had a gig in the Phoenix area, and visited the ASU campus in September (when it is still hot as hell.) Definitely, the most attractive coeds I have ever seen (of course, perhaps my perception was aided by the fact that they were all wearing cropped shirts because of the heat?)WestCoaster said:
MrLuvr said:
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I still think that he can do better.Danger said:
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
spread_love said:
my name is not idiot...you must have got confused with another poster OR other posters aren't allowed their views because the almighty bigjohnson is the be all and end all?bigjohnson said:
It's descriptive, not a proper noun, moron.spread_love said:
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