You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
She's good for a 44 year old (exceptional) but even with some supporting clothes and a distinct lack of rackage she still manages to look saggy, thick and generally worn out. If not for "who she is" no one I know would look twice at her.Francisco d'Anconia said:
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
This doesn't make any sense. How does his choice to spend time with a celebrity make him more or less likely to be honest?TheShineDog said:
Like I said, the only appeal they had previously was that they were:bigjohnson said:
Correct, I work on a college campus, I'd say 95 percent of the women I see walking across campus are hotter than the Olsen twins and Brittney Spears, and frankly, it's not even close ... and this isn't Arizona State either.bigjohnson said:
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Hey squirrels, do you have a problem reading? Or maybe you need to improve your comprehension skill. Did you even understand the intent of the post? Obviously not.squirrels said:
I had a gig in the Phoenix area, and visited the ASU campus in September (when it is still hot as hell.) Definitely, the most attractive coeds I have ever seen (of course, perhaps my perception was aided by the fact that they were all wearing cropped shirts because of the heat?)WestCoaster said:
MrLuvr said:
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I still think that he can do better.Danger said:
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
spread_love said:
my name is not idiot...you must have got confused with another poster OR other posters aren't allowed their views because the almighty bigjohnson is the be all and end all?bigjohnson said:
It's descriptive, not a proper noun, moron.spread_love said:
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