"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Lamest excuse ever to cancel a date!

K-man

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Guys,

Just got a text from the lady I was supposed to meet for a walk and a drink tonight:

"I'm sorry, I haven't got any sleep at all tonight. Been hunting wasps through my apartment. I dont have any energy left for dating."

At least I gotta give her points for creativity.

I Guess I'll next her since she didn't offer any alternate day? :trouble:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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definately move on, this lady has no interest at all...also no class opting for txt instead of calling you. She will be expecting you to call though and ask again. When you dont she'll probably contact you.
 

jophil28

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window said:
definately move on, this lady has no interest at all...also no class opting for txt instead of calling you. She will be expecting you to call though and ask again. When you dont she'll probably contact you.
Even if she did call, you might want to give her a big avoid.
Imagine getting naked with her on her sofa and a few of those wasps return for a late supper.
 

Kailex

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If you ever do talk to her again, you will NEVER, EVER refer to her by name. You will ONLY talk to her as either "Wasp Hunter" or "WH".

She will forever live in your mind's infamy with that, and I don't think I've ever seen anything like that in my life.

Crikey!
 

synergy1

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I would call this an 8 out of 10 for creativity. Wasp hunting? This chicks really got it going on if she spent all night killing these buggers. Wasps need sleep too. ( now are we talking about white Anglo Saxon prodistents or the bugs?)

I got rejected from a movie date 6 years ago because the chick needed to clean her laundry hamper and was tired. To be fair, the weekend before she brought me back to her place and I thought i would be clever and not fvck her on the first night of hanging out. She had like 10 orbiters and didn't like the idea of being stood up for sex and moved on.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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K-man

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Well I haven't really made up my mind yet...the strange thing is that we hit it off really well and when I called her to set up the date she sounded very enthusiastic.

Strange....maybe she's mano-depressive? (Sp.)
 

Scaramouche

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Dear KMan,
Her interest level is so low and she takes herself so seriously,I wouldn't waste time on her.
 

Colossus

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K-man said:
Well I haven't really made up my mind yet...the strange thing is that we hit it off really well and when I called her to set up the date she sounded very enthusiastic.

Strange....maybe she's mano-depressive? (Sp.)

Nah, dont read into it.

I've had numerous 1st dates that went swimmingly, then when I asked for a second they flaked for no apparent reason.

Point is, girls (especially <25) will find any number of reasons not to go out with a guy. Something you said they took out of context, something their friend said, another guy, etc. It doesnt matter. Move on, never call her again.
 

Falcon25

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The guy above has it spot on ^^^^^^^^^^^^ Girls under 25 equal Girls who flake.

Tell this BeeKeeper to have a nice day and move on. She got fuvked that night and no longer needed you. That's what really happened. Move on.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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