"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Lamest excuse ever to cancel a date!

K-man

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Guys,

Just got a text from the lady I was supposed to meet for a walk and a drink tonight:

"I'm sorry, I haven't got any sleep at all tonight. Been hunting wasps through my apartment. I dont have any energy left for dating."

At least I gotta give her points for creativity.

I Guess I'll next her since she didn't offer any alternate day? :trouble:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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window

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definately move on, this lady has no interest at all...also no class opting for txt instead of calling you. She will be expecting you to call though and ask again. When you dont she'll probably contact you.
 

jophil28

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window said:
definately move on, this lady has no interest at all...also no class opting for txt instead of calling you. She will be expecting you to call though and ask again. When you dont she'll probably contact you.
Even if she did call, you might want to give her a big avoid.
Imagine getting naked with her on her sofa and a few of those wasps return for a late supper.
 

Kailex

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If you ever do talk to her again, you will NEVER, EVER refer to her by name. You will ONLY talk to her as either "Wasp Hunter" or "WH".

She will forever live in your mind's infamy with that, and I don't think I've ever seen anything like that in my life.

Crikey!
 

synergy1

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I would call this an 8 out of 10 for creativity. Wasp hunting? This chicks really got it going on if she spent all night killing these buggers. Wasps need sleep too. ( now are we talking about white Anglo Saxon prodistents or the bugs?)

I got rejected from a movie date 6 years ago because the chick needed to clean her laundry hamper and was tired. To be fair, the weekend before she brought me back to her place and I thought i would be clever and not fvck her on the first night of hanging out. She had like 10 orbiters and didn't like the idea of being stood up for sex and moved on.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Well I haven't really made up my mind yet...the strange thing is that we hit it off really well and when I called her to set up the date she sounded very enthusiastic.

Strange....maybe she's mano-depressive? (Sp.)
 

Scaramouche

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Dear KMan,
Her interest level is so low and she takes herself so seriously,I wouldn't waste time on her.
 

Colossus

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K-man said:
Well I haven't really made up my mind yet...the strange thing is that we hit it off really well and when I called her to set up the date she sounded very enthusiastic.

Strange....maybe she's mano-depressive? (Sp.)

Nah, dont read into it.

I've had numerous 1st dates that went swimmingly, then when I asked for a second they flaked for no apparent reason.

Point is, girls (especially <25) will find any number of reasons not to go out with a guy. Something you said they took out of context, something their friend said, another guy, etc. It doesnt matter. Move on, never call her again.
 

Falcon25

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The guy above has it spot on ^^^^^^^^^^^^ Girls under 25 equal Girls who flake.

Tell this BeeKeeper to have a nice day and move on. She got fuvked that night and no longer needed you. That's what really happened. Move on.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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