"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Lamest excuse ever to cancel a date!

K-man

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Guys,

Just got a text from the lady I was supposed to meet for a walk and a drink tonight:

"I'm sorry, I haven't got any sleep at all tonight. Been hunting wasps through my apartment. I dont have any energy left for dating."

At least I gotta give her points for creativity.

I Guess I'll next her since she didn't offer any alternate day? :trouble:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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window

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definately move on, this lady has no interest at all...also no class opting for txt instead of calling you. She will be expecting you to call though and ask again. When you dont she'll probably contact you.
 

jophil28

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window said:
definately move on, this lady has no interest at all...also no class opting for txt instead of calling you. She will be expecting you to call though and ask again. When you dont she'll probably contact you.
Even if she did call, you might want to give her a big avoid.
Imagine getting naked with her on her sofa and a few of those wasps return for a late supper.
 

Kailex

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If you ever do talk to her again, you will NEVER, EVER refer to her by name. You will ONLY talk to her as either "Wasp Hunter" or "WH".

She will forever live in your mind's infamy with that, and I don't think I've ever seen anything like that in my life.

Crikey!
 

synergy1

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I would call this an 8 out of 10 for creativity. Wasp hunting? This chicks really got it going on if she spent all night killing these buggers. Wasps need sleep too. ( now are we talking about white Anglo Saxon prodistents or the bugs?)

I got rejected from a movie date 6 years ago because the chick needed to clean her laundry hamper and was tired. To be fair, the weekend before she brought me back to her place and I thought i would be clever and not fvck her on the first night of hanging out. She had like 10 orbiters and didn't like the idea of being stood up for sex and moved on.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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K-man

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Well I haven't really made up my mind yet...the strange thing is that we hit it off really well and when I called her to set up the date she sounded very enthusiastic.

Strange....maybe she's mano-depressive? (Sp.)
 

Scaramouche

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Dear KMan,
Her interest level is so low and she takes herself so seriously,I wouldn't waste time on her.
 

Colossus

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K-man said:
Well I haven't really made up my mind yet...the strange thing is that we hit it off really well and when I called her to set up the date she sounded very enthusiastic.

Strange....maybe she's mano-depressive? (Sp.)

Nah, dont read into it.

I've had numerous 1st dates that went swimmingly, then when I asked for a second they flaked for no apparent reason.

Point is, girls (especially <25) will find any number of reasons not to go out with a guy. Something you said they took out of context, something their friend said, another guy, etc. It doesnt matter. Move on, never call her again.
 

Falcon25

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The guy above has it spot on ^^^^^^^^^^^^ Girls under 25 equal Girls who flake.

Tell this BeeKeeper to have a nice day and move on. She got fuvked that night and no longer needed you. That's what really happened. Move on.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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