"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Lamenating on all my short relationships

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I've had a few GF's. I'm 21yrs old and the longest I was ever able to hold a GF for was a lengthy:)rolleyes: ) 2 months. I've never been able to dump a girl coz they all got around to ditching me first. Now this is bothering me, WTF is up with me? I made all my ex's laugh, but one thing I've heard at least one time from all of them is that:

"You're an odd one.."
"You're a little weird" and
"You're strange you know that.."

WTF is up with me being 21yrs old and only being able to hold a relationship for 8 weeks tops(usually just around the 4 week mark with most of them, fvcked them all though)

I think I might have some boderline personality disorder or something, and I've been lamenating on the claims of being called "odd" at one stage from my ex'es. I don't know if that's a good or bad thing, I've never been brazen enough to ask for fear of what I might here. For once I'd like to be the one that gets to dump a GF.
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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usually just around the 4 week mark with most of them, fvcked them all though
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Try fvcking them without the role play / cosplay scenario for a while and then introduce it slowly into the relationship?

Sorry for the sarcasm but without more detail it's hard to respond constructively, and we're left to invent reasons.

It can't be a major character flaw though or they would have spotted it sooner.
 
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Hmm more detail. I dunno what else I can say.. Although I find what most chicks(or people for that matter) think is funny to be fvcking stupid and lame. My sense of humour is an aquirred taste I guess.

I got strange interests I guess, alot of people find morbid.
Try fvcking them without the role play / cosplay scenario for a while and then introduce it slowly into the relationship?
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Err I don't get that one dude. lol.
 
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Just messing with you, I saw your comment that you had ****ed them all before they finished it, so I was teasing you about some made up fetish you might have.

What sort of things are you into then? (I don't mean sexually, before you go into any detail!)

What tv shows do you like, what sort of magazines do you buy that sort of thing.
 
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a woman calling YOU odd? that's a twist.

think of it this way at least your are getting experience and you must have some kind of game plan that works. Get more experience, learn from it and then move forward. If you have any doubts that things arent working out next her. protect your heart.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What sort of things are you into then? What tv shows do you like, what sort of magazines do you buy that sort of thing
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Hmm true crime. Shows like Law and Order SVU, CSI, crime biographies, real life execution tapes, Guns and knifes mags. Firearms etc Along with the usual hobbies like moto X riding(love it)



and you must have some kind of game plan that works.
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Not really actually, I'm usually pretty quite. Not to sound like I have my head up my own ass I think my boyish cute looks sorta get me in the door, but my personality makes them leave just as quick :( If you search my name you can find a thread I started about my looks that has pics of me included.
 
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If you have any doubts that things arent working out next her. protect your heart.
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Yeah good idea dude, for *most* of my STR's I *thought* things were going well, then BAM, like lightning outta a clear blue sky I get a phone call with the ol "things aren't really working out between us anymore Will" speach.

I'm working on myself for the moment, not really looking for girls after I tried to top myself about 2 weeks ago. I got **** to sort out, but some of this **** is about my patheticly short relationships. Common denominator is me.
 
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Not into biker chicks? Sounds like they'd be right up your street.

What kind of girls do you go for?
 
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Man I know the old 2 month and out drill. It sucks. I can't tell you what to do on that. I'm 31 and it still happens sometimes.
 
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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