"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Lamenating on all my short relationships

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I've had a few GF's. I'm 21yrs old and the longest I was ever able to hold a GF for was a lengthy:)rolleyes: ) 2 months. I've never been able to dump a girl coz they all got around to ditching me first. Now this is bothering me, WTF is up with me? I made all my ex's laugh, but one thing I've heard at least one time from all of them is that:

"You're an odd one.."
"You're a little weird" and
"You're strange you know that.."

WTF is up with me being 21yrs old and only being able to hold a relationship for 8 weeks tops(usually just around the 4 week mark with most of them, fvcked them all though)

I think I might have some boderline personality disorder or something, and I've been lamenating on the claims of being called "odd" at one stage from my ex'es. I don't know if that's a good or bad thing, I've never been brazen enough to ask for fear of what I might here. For once I'd like to be the one that gets to dump a GF.
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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usually just around the 4 week mark with most of them, fvcked them all though
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Try fvcking them without the role play / cosplay scenario for a while and then introduce it slowly into the relationship?

Sorry for the sarcasm but without more detail it's hard to respond constructively, and we're left to invent reasons.

It can't be a major character flaw though or they would have spotted it sooner.
 
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Hmm more detail. I dunno what else I can say.. Although I find what most chicks(or people for that matter) think is funny to be fvcking stupid and lame. My sense of humour is an aquirred taste I guess.

I got strange interests I guess, alot of people find morbid.
Try fvcking them without the role play / cosplay scenario for a while and then introduce it slowly into the relationship?
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Err I don't get that one dude. lol.
 
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Just messing with you, I saw your comment that you had ****ed them all before they finished it, so I was teasing you about some made up fetish you might have.

What sort of things are you into then? (I don't mean sexually, before you go into any detail!)

What tv shows do you like, what sort of magazines do you buy that sort of thing.
 
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a woman calling YOU odd? that's a twist.

think of it this way at least your are getting experience and you must have some kind of game plan that works. Get more experience, learn from it and then move forward. If you have any doubts that things arent working out next her. protect your heart.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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What sort of things are you into then? What tv shows do you like, what sort of magazines do you buy that sort of thing
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Hmm true crime. Shows like Law and Order SVU, CSI, crime biographies, real life execution tapes, Guns and knifes mags. Firearms etc Along with the usual hobbies like moto X riding(love it)



and you must have some kind of game plan that works.
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Not really actually, I'm usually pretty quite. Not to sound like I have my head up my own ass I think my boyish cute looks sorta get me in the door, but my personality makes them leave just as quick :( If you search my name you can find a thread I started about my looks that has pics of me included.
 
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If you have any doubts that things arent working out next her. protect your heart.
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Yeah good idea dude, for *most* of my STR's I *thought* things were going well, then BAM, like lightning outta a clear blue sky I get a phone call with the ol "things aren't really working out between us anymore Will" speach.

I'm working on myself for the moment, not really looking for girls after I tried to top myself about 2 weeks ago. I got **** to sort out, but some of this **** is about my patheticly short relationships. Common denominator is me.
 
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Not into biker chicks? Sounds like they'd be right up your street.

What kind of girls do you go for?
 
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Man I know the old 2 month and out drill. It sucks. I can't tell you what to do on that. I'm 31 and it still happens sometimes.
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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