"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Lamenating on all my short relationships

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I've had a few GF's. I'm 21yrs old and the longest I was ever able to hold a GF for was a lengthy:)rolleyes: ) 2 months. I've never been able to dump a girl coz they all got around to ditching me first. Now this is bothering me, WTF is up with me? I made all my ex's laugh, but one thing I've heard at least one time from all of them is that:

"You're an odd one.."
"You're a little weird" and
"You're strange you know that.."

WTF is up with me being 21yrs old and only being able to hold a relationship for 8 weeks tops(usually just around the 4 week mark with most of them, fvcked them all though)

I think I might have some boderline personality disorder or something, and I've been lamenating on the claims of being called "odd" at one stage from my ex'es. I don't know if that's a good or bad thing, I've never been brazen enough to ask for fear of what I might here. For once I'd like to be the one that gets to dump a GF.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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usually just around the 4 week mark with most of them, fvcked them all though
Try fvcking them without the role play / cosplay scenario for a while and then introduce it slowly into the relationship?

Sorry for the sarcasm but without more detail it's hard to respond constructively, and we're left to invent reasons.

It can't be a major character flaw though or they would have spotted it sooner.
 

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Hmm more detail. I dunno what else I can say.. Although I find what most chicks(or people for that matter) think is funny to be fvcking stupid and lame. My sense of humour is an aquirred taste I guess.

I got strange interests I guess, alot of people find morbid.
Try fvcking them without the role play / cosplay scenario for a while and then introduce it slowly into the relationship?
Err I don't get that one dude. lol.
 

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Just messing with you, I saw your comment that you had ****ed them all before they finished it, so I was teasing you about some made up fetish you might have.

What sort of things are you into then? (I don't mean sexually, before you go into any detail!)

What tv shows do you like, what sort of magazines do you buy that sort of thing.
 

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a woman calling YOU odd? that's a twist.

think of it this way at least your are getting experience and you must have some kind of game plan that works. Get more experience, learn from it and then move forward. If you have any doubts that things arent working out next her. protect your heart.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What sort of things are you into then? What tv shows do you like, what sort of magazines do you buy that sort of thing
Hmm true crime. Shows like Law and Order SVU, CSI, crime biographies, real life execution tapes, Guns and knifes mags. Firearms etc Along with the usual hobbies like moto X riding(love it)



and you must have some kind of game plan that works.
Not really actually, I'm usually pretty quite. Not to sound like I have my head up my own ass I think my boyish cute looks sorta get me in the door, but my personality makes them leave just as quick :( If you search my name you can find a thread I started about my looks that has pics of me included.
 

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If you have any doubts that things arent working out next her. protect your heart.
Yeah good idea dude, for *most* of my STR's I *thought* things were going well, then BAM, like lightning outta a clear blue sky I get a phone call with the ol "things aren't really working out between us anymore Will" speach.

I'm working on myself for the moment, not really looking for girls after I tried to top myself about 2 weeks ago. I got **** to sort out, but some of this **** is about my patheticly short relationships. Common denominator is me.
 

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Not into biker chicks? Sounds like they'd be right up your street.

What kind of girls do you go for?
 

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Man I know the old 2 month and out drill. It sucks. I can't tell you what to do on that. I'm 31 and it still happens sometimes.
 

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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