Doubt it! Haha chicks from OLD always look worse in person.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Lady from match wants to meet
- Thread starter RickTheToad
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
dustmuffin
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I would hit it all day long
greatsnake
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what are you waiting for?
RickTheToad
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It's okay. Everyone has different tastes. I met this one on Bumble which from the pics didn't have a butt or nice chest, I was wrong, she did. She was on mulitple anti-depressants/anti-anxiety meds and never was able to reach climax. She went off them for a few days, well, she reached climax but, Jesus, I thought she'd might kill me. A bit nutty.
I couldn't do a buttaface, but I guess if you put a bag over their head, perhaps cloth so they can breathe...
She was traveling apparently. She's been texting me all morning; I responded only once. Will be back in the area end of week. She requested Saturday to meet. This one, with the pics, we're meeting Friday. Let's see if either flake.