"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Lack of Attraction Towards Menopausal Women

Tyrion

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Dating women around the age of the menopause is going to be around the right age match for a man of my age. However, I don’t find women around this age bracket sexually attractive.

The changes to their bodies from the menopause are a turn off for me. I like women with curves such as a small waist compared to their hips, a peachy bum. These are replaced with a muffin top waist and a sagging bottom.

My body has changed too due to aging, though I eat healthy and exercise regularly so I’m in decent shape.

I want to be attracted to women in this age bracket as these are women who I can have more in common than with younger women.

I’m wondering if the reason for this is that my sexual attraction is for women who are fertile and the changes in a woman’s body shape during menopause is telling me they are infertile and that is what is turning me off.

has anyone one else experienced this?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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pipeman84

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I don’t find women around this age bracket sexually attractive.
To be fair, most men in that age bracket aren't sexually attractive either.
I’m wondering if the reason for this is that my sexual attraction is for women who are fertile and the changes in a woman’s body shape during menopause is telling me they are infertile and that is what is turning me off.
I don't think so ... a fat woman with short hair who is in her 20s isn't attractive even though she's at peak fertility.
Leaving the physical appearance aside, considering the amount of baggage a 50+ yrs old woman is carrying, it seems to me both masochistic and a lose/lose proposition to want to date one.
 

Pierce Manhammer

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It's simple: target fitter women. My menagerie ranges from 42 to 59. All of them have bodies that are tight and easily rival that of most women of any age, with tight round derriere, flat stomachs, and tight everything. I realize this may be hard to find in the UK; your fat chick epidemic is worse than the US's.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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