"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Lack of Attraction Towards Menopausal Women

Tyrion

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Dating women around the age of the menopause is going to be around the right age match for a man of my age. However, I don’t find women around this age bracket sexually attractive.

The changes to their bodies from the menopause are a turn off for me. I like women with curves such as a small waist compared to their hips, a peachy bum. These are replaced with a muffin top waist and a sagging bottom.

My body has changed too due to aging, though I eat healthy and exercise regularly so I’m in decent shape.

I want to be attracted to women in this age bracket as these are women who I can have more in common than with younger women.

I’m wondering if the reason for this is that my sexual attraction is for women who are fertile and the changes in a woman’s body shape during menopause is telling me they are infertile and that is what is turning me off.

has anyone one else experienced this?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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pipeman84

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I don’t find women around this age bracket sexually attractive.
To be fair, most men in that age bracket aren't sexually attractive either.
I’m wondering if the reason for this is that my sexual attraction is for women who are fertile and the changes in a woman’s body shape during menopause is telling me they are infertile and that is what is turning me off.
I don't think so ... a fat woman with short hair who is in her 20s isn't attractive even though she's at peak fertility.
Leaving the physical appearance aside, considering the amount of baggage a 50+ yrs old woman is carrying, it seems to me both masochistic and a lose/lose proposition to want to date one.
 

Pierce Manhammer

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It's simple: target fitter women. My menagerie ranges from 42 to 59. All of them have bodies that are tight and easily rival that of most women of any age, with tight round derriere, flat stomachs, and tight everything. I realize this may be hard to find in the UK; your fat chick epidemic is worse than the US's.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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