"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Lack of Attraction Towards Menopausal Women

Tyrion

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Dating women around the age of the menopause is going to be around the right age match for a man of my age. However, I don’t find women around this age bracket sexually attractive.

The changes to their bodies from the menopause are a turn off for me. I like women with curves such as a small waist compared to their hips, a peachy bum. These are replaced with a muffin top waist and a sagging bottom.

My body has changed too due to aging, though I eat healthy and exercise regularly so I’m in decent shape.

I want to be attracted to women in this age bracket as these are women who I can have more in common than with younger women.

I’m wondering if the reason for this is that my sexual attraction is for women who are fertile and the changes in a woman’s body shape during menopause is telling me they are infertile and that is what is turning me off.

has anyone one else experienced this?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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pipeman84

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I don’t find women around this age bracket sexually attractive.
To be fair, most men in that age bracket aren't sexually attractive either.
I’m wondering if the reason for this is that my sexual attraction is for women who are fertile and the changes in a woman’s body shape during menopause is telling me they are infertile and that is what is turning me off.
I don't think so ... a fat woman with short hair who is in her 20s isn't attractive even though she's at peak fertility.
Leaving the physical appearance aside, considering the amount of baggage a 50+ yrs old woman is carrying, it seems to me both masochistic and a lose/lose proposition to want to date one.
 

Pierce Manhammer

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It's simple: target fitter women. My menagerie ranges from 42 to 59. All of them have bodies that are tight and easily rival that of most women of any age, with tight round derriere, flat stomachs, and tight everything. I realize this may be hard to find in the UK; your fat chick epidemic is worse than the US's.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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