"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ForeignKid

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Holy Shizznit

Holy **** ! It took you guys this long ? man lol I figured there was no one from our area in the forum :yawn: ...I remember starting a thread and sending pm's to people like 3 months ago..and david ^^ 's the only one that replied lol anyway heres a lil description of me:


Im 18 yrs old, been studying mystery/xuma/dd for a while now and I want to seriously practice this stuff in field with like-minded people. As my handle says im somewhat foreign :D ..dont worry im pretty mature and serious. I just started college and Im BROKE AS ****. so even though I have my licence I dont have a car :(, Oh yea, IM in the LONG BEACH/CERRITOS Area..:up:

Guys, can you guys post your IM INFO ? (MSN/Yahoo/ICQ/AIM info..) ? so its easier for each other to communicate in real time ..

Heres my IM INFO:

AIM: Trtleman
MSN: [email protected]
ICQ: 199064281

Hit me up folks !

P.S: I dont have Myspace.....really, but if you guys are interested I can setup a private forum/discussion place for just us in one of my servers...sounds easy...myspace is just loud, obnoxious and irritating thats all.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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AsianPlayboy

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OC was one of my old stomping grounds when I still lived in LA. Taught a bootcamp there a couple of months ago.

OCWaterBoy, the King of Direct and one of my best friends/wings, not that he's auditioning for new wings, but you could always try:
http://ocwaterboy.blogspot.com/

Two upcoming Asian PUAs in the OC:
http://dpua.blogspot.com/
http://holidaypua.blogspot.com/

Grungey, teaches Day Game in the OC:
http://www.captivatetoconnect.com/

Venues:
Sutra - Hard to get into sometimes, but worth the quality
Scoprion - Decent club/restaurant with decent to above average sets and quality
Hurricanes - Bar street in HB, decent number of sets with some quality
V20 - Insane amount of sets, but has gotten seriously ghetto
 

david90

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"V20 - Insane amount of sets, but has gotten seriously ghetto"

seriously lol
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ForeignKid

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Ok guys , we are meeting up (schedule to at least) this friday, forum communication is very slow etc.. so if you are still interested shoot me a IM on AIM: trtleman :up:
 

EFFORT

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I'm in Irvine for the summer aim= UncleCharlie10
 

sarrow

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if this is still going on, my aim is arrrrow4
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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krasnyiLion

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i live in anaheim i'm 21 I am in for sargin
 

sarrow

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Nice to see a reply...let's keep this public for now so others can join in: what do you think of setting up a sarging trip for this weekend or early next week? Also, where do you prefer to sarge? I live near the Sunset strip, for example, but I'm up for anything.
 

krasnyiLion

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this thread is like when a guy asks a girl "what do you want to do?" " i dont know what do YOU want to do?"
I dont know what do you want to do?
i dont know what do you want to do?
i want to do anything you want to do?
so what do you want to do?


you get the message, it goes on and on and on. let's see we are all DJ let's not be afraid to have balls

i want to know who is in my email is [email protected]
e-mail me. i will give you all 5 days to read this thread, decide who is joining and then email me.

that means that by August 9th 2006 you SHOULD have already emailed me
then i will tell you where to meet. and we will go from there. there is a lot of things we could do here in OC, there are the clubs, there is disneyland, Knotts, the block of Orange, we could do cold approaches at the beach, we could do lots of stuff.
so again
[email protected] email me
by august 9th 2006 okay.
 

Anjinho

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I'm up for it

OK I just found this thread now...I didn't know until today that sosuave.net had a discussion forum (I had stopped visiting this website years ago). But I've been wanting to get a group together for a long time, been having very little luck finding people interested in doing it (not that many people are good with chicks, so I end up teaching people what game I do have, and the ones I know with good game have no interest in putting a group together).

So let's do it. Email me at [email protected] I am in the Lakewood/Long Beach area.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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LA_Chico

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Los Angeles baby!
Sherman Oaks/ Burbank area baby!

I don't have a myspace, but I'll be making on soon bros
 

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Let's Meet Up in Orange County

Hey guys,

I'm a new member of the site. I definately want to find people to meet up with from Orange County.

Info on me: 19 years old. Indian descent, born here (actually, NY, but whatever). And... want to get in the game!!! I've been trying mostly on my own, without much success (although I think I can feel it coming).

So let me know. PM or email or reply to this thread

Thanks,
VIK
 

Sadao

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Did anything ever progress from this thread? I'm always down.

18, while male, ventura county area (bout 45min from LA)
 

justAd1ck

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vik and I are sarging this saturday. If anyone want to join us, reply to this tread or send me a PM. This thread is going no where if no one gonna sarge.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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