"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ForeignKid

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Holy Shizznit

Holy **** ! It took you guys this long ? man lol I figured there was no one from our area in the forum :yawn: ...I remember starting a thread and sending pm's to people like 3 months ago..and david ^^ 's the only one that replied lol anyway heres a lil description of me:


Im 18 yrs old, been studying mystery/xuma/dd for a while now and I want to seriously practice this stuff in field with like-minded people. As my handle says im somewhat foreign :D ..dont worry im pretty mature and serious. I just started college and Im BROKE AS ****. so even though I have my licence I dont have a car :(, Oh yea, IM in the LONG BEACH/CERRITOS Area..:up:

Guys, can you guys post your IM INFO ? (MSN/Yahoo/ICQ/AIM info..) ? so its easier for each other to communicate in real time ..

Heres my IM INFO:

AIM: Trtleman
MSN: [email protected]
ICQ: 199064281

Hit me up folks !

P.S: I dont have Myspace.....really, but if you guys are interested I can setup a private forum/discussion place for just us in one of my servers...sounds easy...myspace is just loud, obnoxious and irritating thats all.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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AsianPlayboy

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OC was one of my old stomping grounds when I still lived in LA. Taught a bootcamp there a couple of months ago.

OCWaterBoy, the King of Direct and one of my best friends/wings, not that he's auditioning for new wings, but you could always try:
http://ocwaterboy.blogspot.com/

Two upcoming Asian PUAs in the OC:
http://dpua.blogspot.com/
http://holidaypua.blogspot.com/

Grungey, teaches Day Game in the OC:
http://www.captivatetoconnect.com/

Venues:
Sutra - Hard to get into sometimes, but worth the quality
Scoprion - Decent club/restaurant with decent to above average sets and quality
Hurricanes - Bar street in HB, decent number of sets with some quality
V20 - Insane amount of sets, but has gotten seriously ghetto
 

david90

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"V20 - Insane amount of sets, but has gotten seriously ghetto"

seriously lol
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Ok guys , we are meeting up (schedule to at least) this friday, forum communication is very slow etc.. so if you are still interested shoot me a IM on AIM: trtleman :up:
 

EFFORT

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I'm in Irvine for the summer aim= UncleCharlie10
 

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if this is still going on, my aim is arrrrow4
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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krasnyiLion

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i live in anaheim i'm 21 I am in for sargin
 

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Nice to see a reply...let's keep this public for now so others can join in: what do you think of setting up a sarging trip for this weekend or early next week? Also, where do you prefer to sarge? I live near the Sunset strip, for example, but I'm up for anything.
 

krasnyiLion

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this thread is like when a guy asks a girl "what do you want to do?" " i dont know what do YOU want to do?"
I dont know what do you want to do?
i dont know what do you want to do?
i want to do anything you want to do?
so what do you want to do?


you get the message, it goes on and on and on. let's see we are all DJ let's not be afraid to have balls

i want to know who is in my email is [email protected]
e-mail me. i will give you all 5 days to read this thread, decide who is joining and then email me.

that means that by August 9th 2006 you SHOULD have already emailed me
then i will tell you where to meet. and we will go from there. there is a lot of things we could do here in OC, there are the clubs, there is disneyland, Knotts, the block of Orange, we could do cold approaches at the beach, we could do lots of stuff.
so again
[email protected] email me
by august 9th 2006 okay.
 

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I'm up for it

OK I just found this thread now...I didn't know until today that sosuave.net had a discussion forum (I had stopped visiting this website years ago). But I've been wanting to get a group together for a long time, been having very little luck finding people interested in doing it (not that many people are good with chicks, so I end up teaching people what game I do have, and the ones I know with good game have no interest in putting a group together).

So let's do it. Email me at [email protected] I am in the Lakewood/Long Beach area.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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LA_Chico

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Los Angeles baby!
Sherman Oaks/ Burbank area baby!

I don't have a myspace, but I'll be making on soon bros
 

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Let's Meet Up in Orange County

Hey guys,

I'm a new member of the site. I definately want to find people to meet up with from Orange County.

Info on me: 19 years old. Indian descent, born here (actually, NY, but whatever). And... want to get in the game!!! I've been trying mostly on my own, without much success (although I think I can feel it coming).

So let me know. PM or email or reply to this thread

Thanks,
VIK
 

Sadao

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Did anything ever progress from this thread? I'm always down.

18, while male, ventura county area (bout 45min from LA)
 

justAd1ck

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vik and I are sarging this saturday. If anyone want to join us, reply to this tread or send me a PM. This thread is going no where if no one gonna sarge.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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