I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I pull them in on leg day - I use DB for lunges - which puts the traps under strain, If theres any juice left in them, Ill do shrugs to burn out.switch said:what's your opinion on shrugs?
Shrugs are fine, you could do UpRight Rows as well. And like Purefilth said you can do them on leg day, help build up your traps so the bar has more of a foundation to sit on when squating. You could do Shrugs on bench day to build your upper back for the bench as well, Or throw them in on Deadlift day ect. Just know why you are doing it.switch said:what's your opinion on shrugs?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I used to do shrugs a lot, but I've heard there's nothing better for trap work than farmer's walks...just grab the heaviest dumbbells you can hold, and walk the length of the gym and back with them in your hands, I'm lucky enough to have a gym with a track around the outside so it works out pretty well lol. We used to do em in football along with relays of flipping tractor tires across a fieldKrueg said:Shrugs are fine, you could do UpRight Rows as well. And like Purefilth said you can do them on leg day, help build up your traps so the bar has more of a foundation to sit on when squating. You could do Shrugs on bench day to build your upper back for the bench as well, Or throw them in on Deadlift day ect. Just know why you are doing it.
Thanks, I'm working on it!Purefilth said:you, sir, are a beast
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Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.