"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Knowing when to go for the kill...

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Met this chick online, sent NN's "goddess wifely" opening message. She responded saying she is an angel 80% of the time, etc. Then sent another message with her number, without me sending any other message...my thinking is she has high IL after seeing my pics and is probably going to be DTF pretty quick...little did I know, it is going to be real quick, lol...

Texted her last night, texts were pretty Flirty...asked what her schedule was this week...she gave me detailed reply, I said well the only days I have open this week are x and y, which one is better. She sad "y :)"

Then immediately asks: "you're not coming for Thanksgiving dinner?"

Now back in the day, I would have missed this one...and been like no I can't, blah blah blah...and been like, I'll just see you Sat, like a fvcking numnut...and then she would have wondered "WTF is wrong with this dude, I basically just gave him a gren light to come fvck me and he wants to go on a date??"

Now I recognize it for what it is, this chick is DTF and has high IL...

I sent a text saying "I'm not sure its safe to eat you food yet, xxxxx...you might try to roofie me so you could have your way with me... ;-)"


She responds "Hahahahaha!!! Good one Matt!! Lmao!! ;-)"

Then I go for the kill shot...

"Maybe a glass of wine and a movie after dinner, tho..."

She responds "Now you're talking!!"

I tell her lets make it happen then, 9pm.
she said sounds great and will text me Thurs to let me know when her company leaves, and I can come earlier if I want...

Moral of the story, don't settle for a date when a chick gives you signs she is DTF and can just invite yourself over...

Chance favors the bold.
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Something I don't understand...

How can you really be married with a kid and have the ability to go off to this woman's house on Thanksgiving?
 

marmel75

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Atom Smasher said:
Something I don't understand...

How can you really be married with a kid and have the ability to go off to this woman's house on Thanksgiving?
Easy...wife and kids are going to Ohio for Thanksgiving because her whole family will be there...I can't go due to having to work at 6am Friday morning. Ill have 4 days of debauchery...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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People got to understand. Marriage is a business. Now why would you sign those papers to get married if your not going to abide by the rules and in turn have a bigger chance of getting bankrupt. Never made sense to me.
 
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