"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Okay, i need a Sure-Fire way of knowing whether or not a girl likes me. Not any girl in particular, just girls i meet at parties/social events. Stuff like that. One technique or move i can use to find out.

I'm scared to overdo my kino and scare chicks off, so i like to know if theres a connection before i really get into things.

I need something that works for special cases too. Like for example i was at a party on the weekend, and i was getting close to this one girl. Pretty hardcore kino. And then her friend showed up and the girl just kinda went away from me. Then at the end of the night i asked the girl for a kiss, and she said no because her friend liked me (her friend was watching us). I know for a fact that her friend liked me, even before the party. Anyways, in this case, i wasnt sure at all if she liked me or not. Because she did pay alot of attention to me until her friend showed up, then she payed more attention to the other guys.

So how do I know?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Why the hell did you ask for the kiss?
 
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The Shocker said:
Why the hell did you ask for the kiss?
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It was a game. Her last name was Djini so i joked around with her asking if she could grant me 3 wishes. My last wish was for a kiss... i thought it was a classic DJ move...
 
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The Shocker said:
Why the hell did you ask for the kiss?
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It was a game. Her last name was Djini so i joked around with her asking if she could grant me 3 wishes. My last wish was for a kiss... i thought it was a classic DJ move...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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saber101 said:
It was a game. Her last name was Djini so i joked around with her asking if she could grant me 3 wishes. My last wish was for a kiss... i thought it was a classic DJ move...
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I haven't heard of a situationg where asking for a kiss is considerred dj, your situation does not count. and she also did not kiss you because "her friend likes you"? <--- lame excuse
 
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By asking for a kiss did you actually go "can you kiss me?" or did you tell her to kiss you like Style does his "Kiss goodbye" and taps his cheek thing?
 
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Plec07 said:
By asking for a kiss did you actually go "can you kiss me?" or did you tell her to kiss you like Style does his "Kiss goodbye" and taps his cheek thing?
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When i was leaving i said "i know what i want for my third wish, a kiss, since i didnt get one during the game" (we had just finished playing spin the bottle). Thats exactly what i said

Plus, the friend liking me wasnt an excuse. Her friends told me she did even before i went to the party (before i met the girl i asked for a kiss from)

Maybe she didnt want to kiss me, but she was still telling the truth. This is why i need an effective way of telling whether or not a chick likes u
 
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I didn't really get what you were saying in the above posts, but what you said to the chick wasn't THAT bad, at least not as bad as saying "can I kiss you?"

There are better ways to do it though. Learn from the experience.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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At parties and social events, if a girl is interested she will look and you and smile, making subtle gestures that are REALLY hard to read. Remember that most girls don't just like you immediatly, rather they begin to like you after talking to you. And since it is a party/social event the level of kino should be clear - close dancing, hands, shoulders. She will let you know
 
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