"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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know any pickup lines for yoga class?

Donovin

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I am in a yoga class(strictly for meeting women)at a community college and the most beautiful girl is in this class with me. She seems my age and we've said hi to each other twice, but that's it. I'm new to this site and have been reading up on all the different ways of picking up on a girl, but wanted to approach her humorously about yoga, or on her posture or something.

If anyone has good ideas for an approach, let me know. I need some help with this one.

-Donovin
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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And don't stare at her crotch when she's in the lotus position.
 

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Originally posted by Donovin
I am in a yoga class(strictly for meeting women)at a community college and the most beautiful girl is in this class with me. She seems my age and we've said hi to each other twice, but that's it. I'm new to this site and have been reading up on all the different ways of picking up on a girl, but wanted to approach her humorously about yoga, or on her posture or something.

If anyone has good ideas for an approach, let me know. I need some help with this one.

-Donovin
Comment on her lovely camel toe
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Re: Re: know any pickup lines for yoga class?

Originally posted by baracus
Comment on her lovely camel toe
Well, I guess it's alright to stare if she has a camel toe...:p
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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