"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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know any pickup lines for yoga class?

Donovin

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I am in a yoga class(strictly for meeting women)at a community college and the most beautiful girl is in this class with me. She seems my age and we've said hi to each other twice, but that's it. I'm new to this site and have been reading up on all the different ways of picking up on a girl, but wanted to approach her humorously about yoga, or on her posture or something.

If anyone has good ideas for an approach, let me know. I need some help with this one.

-Donovin
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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And don't stare at her crotch when she's in the lotus position.
 

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Originally posted by Donovin
I am in a yoga class(strictly for meeting women)at a community college and the most beautiful girl is in this class with me. She seems my age and we've said hi to each other twice, but that's it. I'm new to this site and have been reading up on all the different ways of picking up on a girl, but wanted to approach her humorously about yoga, or on her posture or something.

If anyone has good ideas for an approach, let me know. I need some help with this one.

-Donovin
Comment on her lovely camel toe
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Re: Re: know any pickup lines for yoga class?

Originally posted by baracus
Comment on her lovely camel toe
Well, I guess it's alright to stare if she has a camel toe...:p
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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