"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Knees Shake!

LionFox

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I've been trying to do complex, heavy lifting wiht olympic barbells. I weight 145 pounds now, (I was at 130 when I started 4 months ago) My max bench is only about 100 lbs, so I've still not very strong, just because I've been so under weight and small all my life. I'm been using these 45 lbs barbells with 10 - 20 lbs attached to each end, doing squats, roman deadlifts, cuban barbell curls, and some other things.

My problem is that after just a few minutes, my knees start shaking like crazy! You can imagine how this hurts my form after a few minutes. What do i need to do to stop this?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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payaya

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work on your lower body! your lower body is weak, and your putting it under a lot of strain when lifting.
 

DIESEL

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your quads are still weak, you need to work on your muscular endurance. Just keep lifting, your body will adapt.
 
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