we all eat food
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okay so how do i know a girl wants me to kiss her
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
kissing
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
HAHAHA, we don't?
I swear, if I knew the answer to that, I wouldn't be here.
But ye, most of the time, if she wants you to kiss her, she'll get real close to you (physically), stop talking, and look deeply into your eyes and/or lips. If that happens, then I'm 99.9% certain she wants you to kiss her. Go for it tiger! :cheer:
But anyways, we shouldn't be worrying about whether SHE wants US to kiss her. We should be thinking "Do I want to kiss her now?" Worrying about what a girl thinks is the path to damnation (AFC). Do whatever you want my friend- your "The Man" after all
I swear, if I knew the answer to that, I wouldn't be here.
But ye, most of the time, if she wants you to kiss her, she'll get real close to you (physically), stop talking, and look deeply into your eyes and/or lips. If that happens, then I'm 99.9% certain she wants you to kiss her. Go for it tiger! :cheer:
But anyways, we shouldn't be worrying about whether SHE wants US to kiss her. We should be thinking "Do I want to kiss her now?" Worrying about what a girl thinks is the path to damnation (AFC). Do whatever you want my friend- your "The Man" after all
shydude
Master Don Juan
When she is nervious@@ Look at her hands!!! she will probably gonna start braking her nails!! She will lean about 90% towards u..she might say she wanna kiss u, but thats rare.. and u always go for the kiss, and dont jump into kisssing her, lean towards her slowly, and when u kissing close the eyes and enjoy the moment u DOG@!!! good luck
NoNickname
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She puts on lip gloss.we all eat food said:
@Nonickname Trust me I kissed a LOT girls and this is surely not a sign! I think it s just a moment where you just look at each other and don t say a word a moment were you stop to thing and act feels like time stopped!
If you fail Then i can give you a tip say: I just had to try it because you just now looked so beautiful to me!
If you fail Then i can give you a tip say: I just had to try it because you just now looked so beautiful to me!
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
The Real Ice Man
Don Juan
Hasn't anyone read "the kiss test"? I think it's by Ross Jeffries or Dave Deangelo...I can't remember. It provides some really good information as to a girl's body language and knowing when she wants to.
If you feel like kissing her look her in the eyes then her lips then if she looks at you the same just kiss her or you can even say to her "you know you can tell alot about a person by the way they kiss" go in kis her shell say 'what did u find out' even simi enterested girls will go for this line but even if u go in and she dosent want to kiss its not that big of a deal dont appoligize just smile and go on with what u were talking about ur a guy and girls understand that if you can talk to a girl one on one withno one else there and she seems comfortable she wont mind a kiss.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Kamikazi1231
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Like shydude said with looking at her hands. Look and see if her wrists are exposed. Basic body language that is she is open.
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
just assume it
adpreston1988
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You should always close your eyes when you kiss? Or just for a first kiss?
we all eat food
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we usually just hug though
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
six-foot AZN '05
Don Juan
I take her hands and pull her towards me. I then slowyly bring my head close to her's while keeping eye contact. (Warning: This next part is really intense!) I finally gently press my lips on hers. If she lets you get this far, she wants the kiss. Plus, what girl could resist a hot DJ when he wants a kiss?
mistermarc
Don Juan
she'll hint it to u...touch u more often, laugh a lil bit more,...try touching her on her knee and playing with her hair...and maybe a short compliment about the hair...and if she responds positively..go for it...all this if u hav the time...on the other hand, if she's positive with u so far...just go for it...u miht catch her off guard but yur unpredictability and courage might turn her on more.
Damian
Senior Don Juan
The easiest way is to be an Alpha. Use frame control and set up hoops for her to jump through. If she follows through several times in a row, you can take that as a definite STRONG set of IOI's and simply move in for the kill.
-Damian
-Damian
I remember the kiss test, you basically just have to determin how comfy she is with you touching her, just get up close to her and pull some of her hair back or some other thing and if she lets you do it or leans into it then your golden.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.