"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Fender

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HAHAHA, we don't?

I swear, if I knew the answer to that, I wouldn't be here.

But ye, most of the time, if she wants you to kiss her, she'll get real close to you (physically), stop talking, and look deeply into your eyes and/or lips. If that happens, then I'm 99.9% certain she wants you to kiss her. Go for it tiger! :cheer:

But anyways, we shouldn't be worrying about whether SHE wants US to kiss her. We should be thinking "Do I want to kiss her now?" Worrying about what a girl thinks is the path to damnation (AFC). Do whatever you want my friend- your "The Man" after all ;)
 

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When she is nervious@@ Look at her hands!!! she will probably gonna start braking her nails!! She will lean about 90% towards u..she might say she wanna kiss u, but thats rare.. and u always go for the kiss, and dont jump into kisssing her, lean towards her slowly, and when u kissing close the eyes and enjoy the moment u DOG@!!! good luck
 

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@Nonickname Trust me I kissed a LOT girls and this is surely not a sign! I think it s just a moment where you just look at each other and don t say a word a moment were you stop to thing and act feels like time stopped!
If you fail Then i can give you a tip say: I just had to try it because you just now looked so beautiful to me!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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yes and the 90% you go and let her go the last 10% is always good as well, although you might prefer 70% - 30% cos then if she doesn't want to you can come up with some lame excuse :whistle:
 

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An easy way to tell if the girl wants to kiss is if she takes out a piece of gum when you are alone with her. or asks you for a piece when ur alone with her..
 

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Hasn't anyone read "the kiss test"? I think it's by Ross Jeffries or Dave Deangelo...I can't remember. It provides some really good information as to a girl's body language and knowing when she wants to.
 

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My favorite thing to look for is if she lips her lips. That's a pretty surefire thing. If she licks her lips she wants you to kiss her :)
 

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If you feel like kissing her look her in the eyes then her lips then if she looks at you the same just kiss her or you can even say to her "you know you can tell alot about a person by the way they kiss" go in kis her shell say 'what did u find out' even simi enterested girls will go for this line but even if u go in and she dosent want to kiss its not that big of a deal dont appoligize just smile and go on with what u were talking about ur a guy and girls understand that if you can talk to a girl one on one withno one else there and she seems comfortable she wont mind a kiss.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Like shydude said with looking at her hands. Look and see if her wrists are exposed. Basic body language that is she is open.
 

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I am always playing with the girl's hands, no matter what. When I want to kiss the girl I start by kissing her hand and seeing how she responds to it. If she's into it, then I go for the kiss on the lips.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I take her hands and pull her towards me. I then slowyly bring my head close to her's while keeping eye contact. (Warning: This next part is really intense!) I finally gently press my lips on hers. If she lets you get this far, she wants the kiss. Plus, what girl could resist a hot DJ when he wants a kiss?
 

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she'll hint it to u...touch u more often, laugh a lil bit more,...try touching her on her knee and playing with her hair...and maybe a short compliment about the hair...and if she responds positively..go for it...all this if u hav the time...on the other hand, if she's positive with u so far...just go for it...u miht catch her off guard but yur unpredictability and courage might turn her on more.
 

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The easiest way is to be an Alpha. Use frame control and set up hoops for her to jump through. If she follows through several times in a row, you can take that as a definite STRONG set of IOI's and simply move in for the kill.

-Damian
 

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I remember the kiss test, you basically just have to determin how comfy she is with you touching her, just get up close to her and pull some of her hair back or some other thing and if she lets you do it or leans into it then your golden.
 

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Kiss test. Use the test and see how she responds to it.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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