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okay so how do i know a girl wants me to kiss her
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
kissing
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
HAHAHA, we don't?
I swear, if I knew the answer to that, I wouldn't be here.
But ye, most of the time, if she wants you to kiss her, she'll get real close to you (physically), stop talking, and look deeply into your eyes and/or lips. If that happens, then I'm 99.9% certain she wants you to kiss her. Go for it tiger! :cheer:
But anyways, we shouldn't be worrying about whether SHE wants US to kiss her. We should be thinking "Do I want to kiss her now?" Worrying about what a girl thinks is the path to damnation (AFC). Do whatever you want my friend- your "The Man" after all
I swear, if I knew the answer to that, I wouldn't be here.
But ye, most of the time, if she wants you to kiss her, she'll get real close to you (physically), stop talking, and look deeply into your eyes and/or lips. If that happens, then I'm 99.9% certain she wants you to kiss her. Go for it tiger! :cheer:
But anyways, we shouldn't be worrying about whether SHE wants US to kiss her. We should be thinking "Do I want to kiss her now?" Worrying about what a girl thinks is the path to damnation (AFC). Do whatever you want my friend- your "The Man" after all
shydude
Master Don Juan
When she is nervious@@ Look at her hands!!! she will probably gonna start braking her nails!! She will lean about 90% towards u..she might say she wanna kiss u, but thats rare.. and u always go for the kiss, and dont jump into kisssing her, lean towards her slowly, and when u kissing close the eyes and enjoy the moment u DOG@!!! good luck
NoNickname
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She puts on lip gloss.we all eat food said:
@Nonickname Trust me I kissed a LOT girls and this is surely not a sign! I think it s just a moment where you just look at each other and don t say a word a moment were you stop to thing and act feels like time stopped!
If you fail Then i can give you a tip say: I just had to try it because you just now looked so beautiful to me!
If you fail Then i can give you a tip say: I just had to try it because you just now looked so beautiful to me!
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
The Real Ice Man
Don Juan
Hasn't anyone read "the kiss test"? I think it's by Ross Jeffries or Dave Deangelo...I can't remember. It provides some really good information as to a girl's body language and knowing when she wants to.
If you feel like kissing her look her in the eyes then her lips then if she looks at you the same just kiss her or you can even say to her "you know you can tell alot about a person by the way they kiss" go in kis her shell say 'what did u find out' even simi enterested girls will go for this line but even if u go in and she dosent want to kiss its not that big of a deal dont appoligize just smile and go on with what u were talking about ur a guy and girls understand that if you can talk to a girl one on one withno one else there and she seems comfortable she wont mind a kiss.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Kamikazi1231
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Like shydude said with looking at her hands. Look and see if her wrists are exposed. Basic body language that is she is open.
dannowillbookem
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just assume it
adpreston1988
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You should always close your eyes when you kiss? Or just for a first kiss?
we all eat food
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we usually just hug though
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
six-foot AZN '05
Don Juan
I take her hands and pull her towards me. I then slowyly bring my head close to her's while keeping eye contact. (Warning: This next part is really intense!) I finally gently press my lips on hers. If she lets you get this far, she wants the kiss. Plus, what girl could resist a hot DJ when he wants a kiss?
mistermarc
Don Juan
she'll hint it to u...touch u more often, laugh a lil bit more,...try touching her on her knee and playing with her hair...and maybe a short compliment about the hair...and if she responds positively..go for it...all this if u hav the time...on the other hand, if she's positive with u so far...just go for it...u miht catch her off guard but yur unpredictability and courage might turn her on more.
Damian
Senior Don Juan
The easiest way is to be an Alpha. Use frame control and set up hoops for her to jump through. If she follows through several times in a row, you can take that as a definite STRONG set of IOI's and simply move in for the kill.
-Damian
-Damian
I remember the kiss test, you basically just have to determin how comfy she is with you touching her, just get up close to her and pull some of her hair back or some other thing and if she lets you do it or leans into it then your golden.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.