"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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kiki0202

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I'm in high school now and still have never kissed a girl. To be honest with yall, I wouldnt really know what to do if put in the situation right now. I wouldnt know like when to make the move, when to turn my head, when to use tongue, what do with it.

Is there a site that talks about how to kiss, or could someone tell me how dammit.

Me and this girl, we're real close, and I want to know what to do in the situation.

Thanks.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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MidwestFreek

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Shucks. I was going to come in here and tell him there were other posts, and to look them up, but you gave him a link to one. Darn you.
 

OneByOne

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just go with the flow.....best advice ever...oh and relax......
 

fiddlemethis

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Yea kissing is very natrul, don't try to study it and don't think about it. When you kiss you don't think about kissing , you just kiss and it feels right. If your new let your partner do all the leading and you just follow along.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Cheatz

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Well to be honest I just got a first kiss a couple days ago (not even frenching :() and what really is bad that I'm almost 18. But I don't look at it in a bad way, I can still say to myself that I'm still trying.

When I did it, it was just a spur of the moment, she hinted blatantly to me and walked closer to me and moves her head closer to mine, and I just went for it. She understands that I was shy so I guess she helped me out easing tension.
 
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