"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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kiki0202

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I'm in high school now and still have never kissed a girl. To be honest with yall, I wouldnt really know what to do if put in the situation right now. I wouldnt know like when to make the move, when to turn my head, when to use tongue, what do with it.

Is there a site that talks about how to kiss, or could someone tell me how dammit.

Me and this girl, we're real close, and I want to know what to do in the situation.

Thanks.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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MidwestFreek

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Shucks. I was going to come in here and tell him there were other posts, and to look them up, but you gave him a link to one. Darn you.
 

OneByOne

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just go with the flow.....best advice ever...oh and relax......
 

fiddlemethis

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Yea kissing is very natrul, don't try to study it and don't think about it. When you kiss you don't think about kissing , you just kiss and it feels right. If your new let your partner do all the leading and you just follow along.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Cheatz

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Well to be honest I just got a first kiss a couple days ago (not even frenching :() and what really is bad that I'm almost 18. But I don't look at it in a bad way, I can still say to myself that I'm still trying.

When I did it, it was just a spur of the moment, she hinted blatantly to me and walked closer to me and moves her head closer to mine, and I just went for it. She understands that I was shy so I guess she helped me out easing tension.
 
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