"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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kiki0202

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I'm in high school now and still have never kissed a girl. To be honest with yall, I wouldnt really know what to do if put in the situation right now. I wouldnt know like when to make the move, when to turn my head, when to use tongue, what do with it.

Is there a site that talks about how to kiss, or could someone tell me how dammit.

Me and this girl, we're real close, and I want to know what to do in the situation.

Thanks.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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MidwestFreek

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Shucks. I was going to come in here and tell him there were other posts, and to look them up, but you gave him a link to one. Darn you.
 

OneByOne

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just go with the flow.....best advice ever...oh and relax......
 

fiddlemethis

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Yea kissing is very natrul, don't try to study it and don't think about it. When you kiss you don't think about kissing , you just kiss and it feels right. If your new let your partner do all the leading and you just follow along.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Cheatz

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Well to be honest I just got a first kiss a couple days ago (not even frenching :() and what really is bad that I'm almost 18. But I don't look at it in a bad way, I can still say to myself that I'm still trying.

When I did it, it was just a spur of the moment, she hinted blatantly to me and walked closer to me and moves her head closer to mine, and I just went for it. She understands that I was shy so I guess she helped me out easing tension.
 
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