john paul
Senior Don Juan
what are some of your best/smoothest/funniest moves in sneaking in a kiss?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
john paul
Senior Don Juan
alright i guess ill share then
this one time i was alone with a girl and she was talking about her dog or something and i very quickly interupted her to tell her that she had something on her eyelash(she had nothing on it). After failling to brush it off her eye i told her to close her eyes and i would get it for her which i then gave her a long kiss. I then followed up with a "ok i got it for you".
anyone else got something like this?
this one time i was alone with a girl and she was talking about her dog or something and i very quickly interupted her to tell her that she had something on her eyelash(she had nothing on it). After failling to brush it off her eye i told her to close her eyes and i would get it for her which i then gave her a long kiss. I then followed up with a "ok i got it for you".
anyone else got something like this?
kickureface
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yep. just without the eyelash part.
Kev07
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She was rambling and I told her to stfu and kissed her.
War Against Betaism
Master Don Juan
haha same here.kickureface said:
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Supremo
Senior Don Juan
One word: roofies
girl_in_a_boy_forum
Senior Don Juan
Bake something together that involves frosting and the possibilities are endless.
GaryUranga
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oh yeah I goign to bake somehtign with my gf just so I can try this out, hold on I gotta get rid of all my pants and wear skirt now 
Plec07
Senior Don Juan
Gary... you do worry me sometimes .
More importantly, my main "first kiss" technique is simply talking to her about something important to her. Do something to make her look down and when she looks back up usually her hair will hang over her face slightly. All I then do is without saying a word smile while looking into her eyes intensely, gently push her hair our of her face before moving my hand towards her chin. With a small bit of pressure on her chin her head tilts towards mine and I then kiss her slowly.
If that doesn't work then next time you see her shout "suprise!!" tackle her to the ground, punch her in the face a couple times till she's unconcious with her mouth hanging open and lick her tongue like a dog.
*For anyone actually considering trying my second idea.... Remember to post your results. It will amuse me*
.More importantly, my main "first kiss" technique is simply talking to her about something important to her. Do something to make her look down and when she looks back up usually her hair will hang over her face slightly. All I then do is without saying a word smile while looking into her eyes intensely, gently push her hair our of her face before moving my hand towards her chin. With a small bit of pressure on her chin her head tilts towards mine and I then kiss her slowly.
If that doesn't work then next time you see her shout "suprise!!" tackle her to the ground, punch her in the face a couple times till she's unconcious with her mouth hanging open and lick her tongue like a dog.
*For anyone actually considering trying my second idea.... Remember to post your results. It will amuse me
*
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
john paul
Senior Don Juan
Im saying right now to just do it the next time you have a chance. It will be akward the first time probably. Mine was plently akward. But its easy sneasy after that first couple of times, you wont have to think twice about it.
Philosopher
Don Juan
Keeping this alive
ice cream shop downtown with some friends and a few girls.. one i had a crush on (i was an AFC) anyway.. i had some ice cream on my nose.. and she licked it off...haha and of course i just had to do it.. and then put some ice cream on the side of my lip.. when she leaned over to lick that off.. i snuck in a quickie kiss
CTApprentice
Don Juan
Vice said:I'm yet to kiss a girl for the first time
I need help lol
let me call one of you guys so you can verbally beat the **** out of me and force me to do it
bro im in the same situation,hopefully i can make something happen in the next few months.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
It's not that hard guys. You quite literally just lean in and kiss her when you have her isolated. If she's even a little attracted to you she'll let you. Losing the fear of kissing a girl for the first time was the one thing that changed me from never getting chicks to getting laid consistently.Vice said:I'm yet to kiss a girl for the first time
I need help lol
let me call one of you guys so you can verbally beat the **** out of me and force me to do it
You know most girls you just friends with will let you give her a quick peck, right? I've at least peck kissed every girl I hang out with. Even if you're just friends she'll likely give a little laugh and playfully call you a jerk. Don't be afraid. A lot of the girls I'm just a close friend to peck kiss me goodbye every night.
It's one of those things that gets easier every time. I lost the fear because I've never had a chick pull back from a kiss. Chicks like making out! Give them what they want!
girl_in_a_boy_forum
Senior Don Juan
I come up behind my man and gently kiss him on the back of his neck.
GaryUranga
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way to make it public, Im never lettign you kiss me again
lonewolf17
Don Juan
ill use this thread instead of making a new one.
i've got a girl who i'm fairly sure is really into me. she got a hair cut and like a new outfit and everything for our date which was...bowling lol (gotta love the action dates!). oh and she spent hours making me a mix tape and even illustrated a cover and everything. yeah im fairly sure she is into me.
BUT
im finding kino hard with her. i can get it in, but it's just she is sort of a shy one, and after a while she began to respond, but still, it's been tough.
however, i can manage that. my true problem is ths KISS. i cant get it in. i just cant find some natural way to do it with this girl. and until i do im afraid im gonna drift into friend zone...
so for the shy girl, what is the best way to sneak one in?
i've got a girl who i'm fairly sure is really into me. she got a hair cut and like a new outfit and everything for our date which was...bowling lol (gotta love the action dates!). oh and she spent hours making me a mix tape and even illustrated a cover and everything. yeah im fairly sure she is into me.
BUT
im finding kino hard with her. i can get it in, but it's just she is sort of a shy one, and after a while she began to respond, but still, it's been tough.
however, i can manage that. my true problem is ths KISS. i cant get it in. i just cant find some natural way to do it with this girl. and until i do im afraid im gonna drift into friend zone...
so for the shy girl, what is the best way to sneak one in?
Don't sneak it. Kino her and stare into her eyes, give her the kiss test and just go for it.
I've NEVER been rejected by a girl. I was so surprised how easy it is. It seems so hard untill you acually do it then its just a piece of pis$.
john paul thats freakin sweet. I'm definately gonna use that.
I've NEVER been rejected by a girl. I was so surprised how easy it is. It seems so hard untill you acually do it then its just a piece of pis$.
john paul thats freakin sweet. I'm definately gonna use that.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.