john paul
Senior Don Juan
what are some of your best/smoothest/funniest moves in sneaking in a kiss?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
john paul
Senior Don Juan
alright i guess ill share then
this one time i was alone with a girl and she was talking about her dog or something and i very quickly interupted her to tell her that she had something on her eyelash(she had nothing on it). After failling to brush it off her eye i told her to close her eyes and i would get it for her which i then gave her a long kiss. I then followed up with a "ok i got it for you".
anyone else got something like this?
this one time i was alone with a girl and she was talking about her dog or something and i very quickly interupted her to tell her that she had something on her eyelash(she had nothing on it). After failling to brush it off her eye i told her to close her eyes and i would get it for her which i then gave her a long kiss. I then followed up with a "ok i got it for you".
anyone else got something like this?
kickureface
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yep. just without the eyelash part.
Kev07
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She was rambling and I told her to stfu and kissed her.
War Against Betaism
Master Don Juan
haha same here.kickureface said:
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Supremo
Senior Don Juan
One word: roofies
girl_in_a_boy_forum
Senior Don Juan
Bake something together that involves frosting and the possibilities are endless.
GaryUranga
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oh yeah I goign to bake somehtign with my gf just so I can try this out, hold on I gotta get rid of all my pants and wear skirt now 
Plec07
Senior Don Juan
Gary... you do worry me sometimes .
More importantly, my main "first kiss" technique is simply talking to her about something important to her. Do something to make her look down and when she looks back up usually her hair will hang over her face slightly. All I then do is without saying a word smile while looking into her eyes intensely, gently push her hair our of her face before moving my hand towards her chin. With a small bit of pressure on her chin her head tilts towards mine and I then kiss her slowly.
If that doesn't work then next time you see her shout "suprise!!" tackle her to the ground, punch her in the face a couple times till she's unconcious with her mouth hanging open and lick her tongue like a dog.
*For anyone actually considering trying my second idea.... Remember to post your results. It will amuse me*
.More importantly, my main "first kiss" technique is simply talking to her about something important to her. Do something to make her look down and when she looks back up usually her hair will hang over her face slightly. All I then do is without saying a word smile while looking into her eyes intensely, gently push her hair our of her face before moving my hand towards her chin. With a small bit of pressure on her chin her head tilts towards mine and I then kiss her slowly.
If that doesn't work then next time you see her shout "suprise!!" tackle her to the ground, punch her in the face a couple times till she's unconcious with her mouth hanging open and lick her tongue like a dog.
*For anyone actually considering trying my second idea.... Remember to post your results. It will amuse me
*
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
john paul
Senior Don Juan
Im saying right now to just do it the next time you have a chance. It will be akward the first time probably. Mine was plently akward. But its easy sneasy after that first couple of times, you wont have to think twice about it.
Philosopher
Don Juan
Keeping this alive
ice cream shop downtown with some friends and a few girls.. one i had a crush on (i was an AFC) anyway.. i had some ice cream on my nose.. and she licked it off...haha and of course i just had to do it.. and then put some ice cream on the side of my lip.. when she leaned over to lick that off.. i snuck in a quickie kiss
CTApprentice
Don Juan
Vice said:I'm yet to kiss a girl for the first time
I need help lol
let me call one of you guys so you can verbally beat the **** out of me and force me to do it
bro im in the same situation,hopefully i can make something happen in the next few months.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
It's not that hard guys. You quite literally just lean in and kiss her when you have her isolated. If she's even a little attracted to you she'll let you. Losing the fear of kissing a girl for the first time was the one thing that changed me from never getting chicks to getting laid consistently.Vice said:I'm yet to kiss a girl for the first time
I need help lol
let me call one of you guys so you can verbally beat the **** out of me and force me to do it
You know most girls you just friends with will let you give her a quick peck, right? I've at least peck kissed every girl I hang out with. Even if you're just friends she'll likely give a little laugh and playfully call you a jerk. Don't be afraid. A lot of the girls I'm just a close friend to peck kiss me goodbye every night.
It's one of those things that gets easier every time. I lost the fear because I've never had a chick pull back from a kiss. Chicks like making out! Give them what they want!
girl_in_a_boy_forum
Senior Don Juan
I come up behind my man and gently kiss him on the back of his neck.
GaryUranga
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way to make it public, Im never lettign you kiss me again
lonewolf17
Don Juan
ill use this thread instead of making a new one.
i've got a girl who i'm fairly sure is really into me. she got a hair cut and like a new outfit and everything for our date which was...bowling lol (gotta love the action dates!). oh and she spent hours making me a mix tape and even illustrated a cover and everything. yeah im fairly sure she is into me.
BUT
im finding kino hard with her. i can get it in, but it's just she is sort of a shy one, and after a while she began to respond, but still, it's been tough.
however, i can manage that. my true problem is ths KISS. i cant get it in. i just cant find some natural way to do it with this girl. and until i do im afraid im gonna drift into friend zone...
so for the shy girl, what is the best way to sneak one in?
i've got a girl who i'm fairly sure is really into me. she got a hair cut and like a new outfit and everything for our date which was...bowling lol (gotta love the action dates!). oh and she spent hours making me a mix tape and even illustrated a cover and everything. yeah im fairly sure she is into me.
BUT
im finding kino hard with her. i can get it in, but it's just she is sort of a shy one, and after a while she began to respond, but still, it's been tough.
however, i can manage that. my true problem is ths KISS. i cant get it in. i just cant find some natural way to do it with this girl. and until i do im afraid im gonna drift into friend zone...
so for the shy girl, what is the best way to sneak one in?
Don't sneak it. Kino her and stare into her eyes, give her the kiss test and just go for it.
I've NEVER been rejected by a girl. I was so surprised how easy it is. It seems so hard untill you acually do it then its just a piece of pis$.
john paul thats freakin sweet. I'm definately gonna use that.
I've NEVER been rejected by a girl. I was so surprised how easy it is. It seems so hard untill you acually do it then its just a piece of pis$.
john paul thats freakin sweet. I'm definately gonna use that.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.