"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Kissing On The First Date

Surfboard

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I saw this on some dating show.

They took a survey about kissing on the first date. The results were that 66% of women want to be kissed.

So, if you're undecided about whether to kiss the girl or not, it's best to go with the better odds and just go for it. ;)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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LikRetsam

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How about you just see if you're into her or not and act accordingly. No way I am going to choose based on HER. It's all about me.
 

Eternal

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Moved to Discussion.
 

DJ_Dork

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I would really gauge her interest. Sometimes it's the girls fault for not giving off the proper signs. Test this by moving in close to her and talking to her. If she looks at you in the eyes and her body is leaning towards you. GO KISS. If she's distancing herself or behaves in a manner that distances herself, don't go for it. The girl may just be shy or whatever..but this is a clear sign that she is mentally messed up.

In the first couple of dates be judgemental, if a girl digs you she will welcome your advances - if she doesn't she will let you know right away.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Porky

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If a woman does not want you to kiss her, she will grow very uncomfortable when your face gets within 3 or 4 inches of her. Try to push this boundary throughout the night to see where you stand.
 
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