"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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Kissing On The First Date

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I saw this on some dating show.

They took a survey about kissing on the first date. The results were that 66% of women want to be kissed.

So, if you're undecided about whether to kiss the girl or not, it's best to go with the better odds and just go for it. ;)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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How about you just see if you're into her or not and act accordingly. No way I am going to choose based on HER. It's all about me.
 
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Moved to Discussion.
 
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I would really gauge her interest. Sometimes it's the girls fault for not giving off the proper signs. Test this by moving in close to her and talking to her. If she looks at you in the eyes and her body is leaning towards you. GO KISS. If she's distancing herself or behaves in a manner that distances herself, don't go for it. The girl may just be shy or whatever..but this is a clear sign that she is mentally messed up.

In the first couple of dates be judgemental, if a girl digs you she will welcome your advances - if she doesn't she will let you know right away.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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If a woman does not want you to kiss her, she will grow very uncomfortable when your face gets within 3 or 4 inches of her. Try to push this boundary throughout the night to see where you stand.
 
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