Hey everyone! I was wondering if any of you could help me with my current problem. I have been visiting this site for little less than a year, and have taken care of many self-esteem and confidence issues. However, there's a problem I'm dealing with right now, and I'd like to hear from people who's had similar experiences. Mainly, I don't know when it's proper when to kiss a girl. I 've kissed a couple girls in the past, but one of them was because I was absolutely sure she liked me (some mutual friends told me) and the other didn't want anything to do with me after I kissed her at the end of our first date. In the couple months since that, I have missed some great oportunities because I have been too afraid to act. Somehow, I have the irrational fear that if I try to kiss a girl and she doesn't like me she will become angry or offended. Please don't tell me to read the DJ Bible, because I already have. The problem is that it's too much information. I just want to hear from people who have had this experience and to know how they overcame this problem, what posts/information were useful for them, etc. Thanks in advance!!
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Kissing girls
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