"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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CRDJit

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Hey everyone! I was wondering if any of you could help me with my current problem. I have been visiting this site for little less than a year, and have taken care of many self-esteem and confidence issues. However, there's a problem I'm dealing with right now, and I'd like to hear from people who's had similar experiences. Mainly, I don't know when it's proper when to kiss a girl. I 've kissed a couple girls in the past, but one of them was because I was absolutely sure she liked me (some mutual friends told me) and the other didn't want anything to do with me after I kissed her at the end of our first date. In the couple months since that, I have missed some great oportunities because I have been too afraid to act. Somehow, I have the irrational fear that if I try to kiss a girl and she doesn't like me she will become angry or offended. Please don't tell me to read the DJ Bible, because I already have. The problem is that it's too much information. I just want to hear from people who have had this experience and to know how they overcame this problem, what posts/information were useful for them, etc. Thanks in advance!!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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CRDJit

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Ummm could you tell me where it is? I just enabled PM's, so I didn't get it
 

ready123

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google the dicarlo escalation ladder
 

DoctorLW

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You should just know when a girl likes you at this point. Finding excuses to brush / bump into you is a really obvious one. Once you know that it's my opinion it doesn't really matter WHEN or what circumstances you kiss her. As long as you've made eye contact with her and are close enough to go in for the kill she will respond. Even if your in a public place like a bar, a girl will make out with you if she likes you. If she won't, then you know she doesn't like you and you don't have to waste your time. So don't be afraid to kiss a girl, it's a win-win situation.

Oh yeah, make sure you kiss her on the first time you hangout. You simply can't wait longer than that.
 
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