Hey everyone! I was wondering if any of you could help me with my current problem. I have been visiting this site for little less than a year, and have taken care of many self-esteem and confidence issues. However, there's a problem I'm dealing with right now, and I'd like to hear from people who's had similar experiences. Mainly, I don't know when it's proper when to kiss a girl. I 've kissed a couple girls in the past, but one of them was because I was absolutely sure she liked me (some mutual friends told me) and the other didn't want anything to do with me after I kissed her at the end of our first date. In the couple months since that, I have missed some great oportunities because I have been too afraid to act. Somehow, I have the irrational fear that if I try to kiss a girl and she doesn't like me she will become angry or offended. Please don't tell me to read the DJ Bible, because I already have. The problem is that it's too much information. I just want to hear from people who have had this experience and to know how they overcame this problem, what posts/information were useful for them, etc. Thanks in advance!!
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Kissing girls
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