Hey everyone! I was wondering if any of you could help me with my current problem. I have been visiting this site for little less than a year, and have taken care of many self-esteem and confidence issues. However, there's a problem I'm dealing with right now, and I'd like to hear from people who's had similar experiences. Mainly, I don't know when it's proper when to kiss a girl. I 've kissed a couple girls in the past, but one of them was because I was absolutely sure she liked me (some mutual friends told me) and the other didn't want anything to do with me after I kissed her at the end of our first date. In the couple months since that, I have missed some great oportunities because I have been too afraid to act. Somehow, I have the irrational fear that if I try to kiss a girl and she doesn't like me she will become angry or offended. Please don't tell me to read the DJ Bible, because I already have. The problem is that it's too much information. I just want to hear from people who have had this experience and to know how they overcame this problem, what posts/information were useful for them, etc. Thanks in advance!!
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Kissing girls
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