"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Kissing Girl's Hands

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Kissing a girl's hand when meeting them is for losers! This has to be the worst freaking tip EVER.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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yeah, i save the hand kissing for women im with or something.. its more of an affection thing, when you do meeting a girl its really lame.

unless you are a classy fvcking super-duper DJPUA and you are picking up an HB10 supermodel.
 
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I CAN DO THAT. but just a lone kiss on the hand, floating in the interaction with no kino-context doesn't really work. It will seem like something you are just doing (oh he decided to kiss my hand. He's probably been doing it to women all week) instead of something you are. So you gotta anchor it in other touching, move the kisses up her arm until she jerks away, or reach up and put your arm around her.

maybe it's just because I'm the absolute f*c*ing man and I'm often percieved as being ****y and mean, and a fighter and a dog and a womanizer and a bully. But when I kiss a woman's hand, especially with any kind of social proof, people say things like "oh it's on now" or "watch out for that one." which generally helps or at least gives me an ego boost.
 
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This was a stupid article posted on the main page. I can just see a bunch of high school boys reading this and trying it at school to some dumb goth chick.

Some of the crap they post on the main page is just awful.
 
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