"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Kissing Girl's Hands

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Kissing a girl's hand when meeting them is for losers! This has to be the worst freaking tip EVER.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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yeah, i save the hand kissing for women im with or something.. its more of an affection thing, when you do meeting a girl its really lame.

unless you are a classy fvcking super-duper DJPUA and you are picking up an HB10 supermodel.
 
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I CAN DO THAT. but just a lone kiss on the hand, floating in the interaction with no kino-context doesn't really work. It will seem like something you are just doing (oh he decided to kiss my hand. He's probably been doing it to women all week) instead of something you are. So you gotta anchor it in other touching, move the kisses up her arm until she jerks away, or reach up and put your arm around her.

maybe it's just because I'm the absolute f*c*ing man and I'm often percieved as being ****y and mean, and a fighter and a dog and a womanizer and a bully. But when I kiss a woman's hand, especially with any kind of social proof, people say things like "oh it's on now" or "watch out for that one." which generally helps or at least gives me an ego boost.
 
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This was a stupid article posted on the main page. I can just see a bunch of high school boys reading this and trying it at school to some dumb goth chick.

Some of the crap they post on the main page is just awful.
 
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