"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Kissing Girl's Hands

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JPFromTally

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Kissing a girl's hand when meeting them is for losers! This has to be the worst freaking tip EVER.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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yeah, i save the hand kissing for women im with or something.. its more of an affection thing, when you do meeting a girl its really lame.

unless you are a classy fvcking super-duper DJPUA and you are picking up an HB10 supermodel.
 
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I CAN DO THAT. but just a lone kiss on the hand, floating in the interaction with no kino-context doesn't really work. It will seem like something you are just doing (oh he decided to kiss my hand. He's probably been doing it to women all week) instead of something you are. So you gotta anchor it in other touching, move the kisses up her arm until she jerks away, or reach up and put your arm around her.

maybe it's just because I'm the absolute f*c*ing man and I'm often percieved as being ****y and mean, and a fighter and a dog and a womanizer and a bully. But when I kiss a woman's hand, especially with any kind of social proof, people say things like "oh it's on now" or "watch out for that one." which generally helps or at least gives me an ego boost.
 
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This was a stupid article posted on the main page. I can just see a bunch of high school boys reading this and trying it at school to some dumb goth chick.

Some of the crap they post on the main page is just awful.
 
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