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Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Kissing a woman friend on the forehead?

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I would like to know whats your opinion on this? Say you see a woman friend of yours but nothing much really happened. You see her one day and just chit chat for a minute and two and say bye and kiss her on the forehead.

i heard that women would literally melt if a guy who she is attracted to did that to her. Is this true? What if she only sees him as a friend? Would you say omg what just happened why he did that or would she just take it as a friendly gesture?
 

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I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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warrior1 said:
i heard that women would literally melt if a guy who she is attracted to did that to her. Is this true? ?
No. She will most likely go "WTF didn't he go for it and kiss me, what am I ugly? is he gay?"

warrior1 said:
What if she only sees him as a friend? Would you say omg what just happened why he did that or would she just take it as a friendly gesture?
A friend you will be and a friend she will see.
 

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nothing says I don't have balls like kissing a woman on the forehead.

you might as well kiss her on the hand.. no seriously don't do that it was a joke
 

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lol at kisssing her on the hand. That is way overdoing it. Even i know.
 

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backbreaker said:
nothing says I don't have balls like kissing a woman on the forehead.

you might as well kiss her on the hand.. no seriously don't do that it was a joke
Yeah, it seems a bit patronizing too. Might as well pat her on the head and say "good girl."
 

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Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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HAHAHAHA

You could give her a kiss on the forehead, then on the cheek, then on the neck etc etc.... but don't just kiss the forehead that's for chicks to do
 

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warrior1 said:
I would like to know whats your opinion on this? Say you see a woman friend of yours but nothing much really happened. You see her one day and just chit chat for a minute and two and say bye and kiss her on the forehead.

i heard that women would literally melt if a guy who she is attracted to did that to her. Is this true? What if she only sees him as a friend? Would you say omg what just happened why he did that or would she just take it as a friendly gesture?

Actually, the chicks I've dated seem to melt when I do it. They see it as a protective thing, at least, that's what they've said. It's the point where there's the cuddling, her hand is on your chest, and you do the forehead kiss. They've SAID it was manly (and yeah, I know, some women say the total opposite of what they actually do, but in this case, by their reactions at the time, I have no reason to doubt it), without my asking. Of course, the forehead kiss is not the only kiss to go to (unless it's a first date), and I, depending on the situation, usually go for more if she and I have been dating for a while.
 

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Mental said:
Actually, the chicks I've dated seem to melt when I do it. ...
Would you do it to a woman you who you weren't dating?
 

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kissing a woman you're just friends with seems kinda edgy
 

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Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The only time it seems appropriate is when you're cuddling and her head is on your chest, as stated above.
 

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think about it like tihs...

does a woman kissing you on the forehead make your **** hard?

Or shoving her tougne down your throat?

I mean some of these questions ar ejust stupid. why not just send her a note that says "kiss"
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Would you do it to a woman you who you weren't dating?
Depends on the woman. Lol.

Actually, it depends also by wat you define as "dating." It also depends on if there's a level of chemistry.
 

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Mental said:
Depends on the woman. Lol.

Actually, it depends also by wat you define as "dating." It also depends on if there's a level of chemistry.
She's just a "friend" (really). No sarging, just an acquaintance.
 

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try this instead: kiss your two fingers. Touches those two fingers on her lips.
 

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