"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Kissing a woman friend on the forehead?

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I would like to know whats your opinion on this? Say you see a woman friend of yours but nothing much really happened. You see her one day and just chit chat for a minute and two and say bye and kiss her on the forehead.

i heard that women would literally melt if a guy who she is attracted to did that to her. Is this true? What if she only sees him as a friend? Would you say omg what just happened why he did that or would she just take it as a friendly gesture?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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warrior1 said:
i heard that women would literally melt if a guy who she is attracted to did that to her. Is this true? ?
No. She will most likely go "WTF didn't he go for it and kiss me, what am I ugly? is he gay?"

warrior1 said:
What if she only sees him as a friend? Would you say omg what just happened why he did that or would she just take it as a friendly gesture?
A friend you will be and a friend she will see.
 

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nothing says I don't have balls like kissing a woman on the forehead.

you might as well kiss her on the hand.. no seriously don't do that it was a joke
 

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lol at kisssing her on the hand. That is way overdoing it. Even i know.
 

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backbreaker said:
nothing says I don't have balls like kissing a woman on the forehead.

you might as well kiss her on the hand.. no seriously don't do that it was a joke
Yeah, it seems a bit patronizing too. Might as well pat her on the head and say "good girl."
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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HAHAHAHA

You could give her a kiss on the forehead, then on the cheek, then on the neck etc etc.... but don't just kiss the forehead that's for chicks to do
 

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warrior1 said:
I would like to know whats your opinion on this? Say you see a woman friend of yours but nothing much really happened. You see her one day and just chit chat for a minute and two and say bye and kiss her on the forehead.

i heard that women would literally melt if a guy who she is attracted to did that to her. Is this true? What if she only sees him as a friend? Would you say omg what just happened why he did that or would she just take it as a friendly gesture?

Actually, the chicks I've dated seem to melt when I do it. They see it as a protective thing, at least, that's what they've said. It's the point where there's the cuddling, her hand is on your chest, and you do the forehead kiss. They've SAID it was manly (and yeah, I know, some women say the total opposite of what they actually do, but in this case, by their reactions at the time, I have no reason to doubt it), without my asking. Of course, the forehead kiss is not the only kiss to go to (unless it's a first date), and I, depending on the situation, usually go for more if she and I have been dating for a while.
 

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Actually, the chicks I've dated seem to melt when I do it. ...
Would you do it to a woman you who you weren't dating?
 

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kissing a woman you're just friends with seems kinda edgy
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The only time it seems appropriate is when you're cuddling and her head is on your chest, as stated above.
 

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think about it like tihs...

does a woman kissing you on the forehead make your **** hard?

Or shoving her tougne down your throat?

I mean some of these questions ar ejust stupid. why not just send her a note that says "kiss"
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Would you do it to a woman you who you weren't dating?
Depends on the woman. Lol.

Actually, it depends also by wat you define as "dating." It also depends on if there's a level of chemistry.
 

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Mental said:
Depends on the woman. Lol.

Actually, it depends also by wat you define as "dating." It also depends on if there's a level of chemistry.
She's just a "friend" (really). No sarging, just an acquaintance.
 

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try this instead: kiss your two fingers. Touches those two fingers on her lips.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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