"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Lord Sidious

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Hi, guys!

A situation in wich we have a date, or anything/anywere to do/go with a girl, when we see her at that place (or when we are saying goodbye), should we kissing her in the face?

I ask this because, doesn´t this could show a "just to be friends" situation?

Thanks
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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When kissing a date its best to give them a kiss on the cheek, if you like. Go for the lips when the time is right.


The most important thing is to be comfortable doing it. If you are uncomfortable of hesitate with a kiss it looks bad. So do whats comfortable for you. You don't have to kiss them when you first meet.
 

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slaog said:
When kissing a date its best to give them a kiss on the cheek, if you like. Go for the lips when the time is right.


The most important thing is to be comfortable doing it. If you are uncomfortable of hesitate with a kiss it looks bad. So do whats comfortable for you. You don't have to kiss them when you first meet.

Hi, slaog!

That´s what I wrote. A kiss on the face:
"...when we see her at that place (or when we are saying goodbye),should we kiss her on the face?


So, your oppinion is that kissing her on the cheek doesn´t mean a "just be friends" situation? Isn´t that better just to smile and not to kiss?
 

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Lord Sidious said:
Hi, slaog!

That´s what I wrote. A kiss on the face:
"...when we see her at that place (or when we are saying goodbye),should we kiss her on the face?


So, your oppinion is that kissing her on the cheek doesn´t mean a "just be friends" situation? Isn´t that better just to smile and not to kiss?

It shows you are confident and you're being sexual.


Guy friends don't kiss their girl-friends. Gays kiss their girl-friends but thats ok because theres nothing sexual in it. Its the same reason why most guys don't kiss their girl-friends.


So its perfectly fine to kiss her but be confident doing it. :up:
 

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What? If I treat a girl to a good time I want my tongue down her throat.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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