"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Lord Sidious

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Hi, guys!

A situation in wich we have a date, or anything/anywere to do/go with a girl, when we see her at that place (or when we are saying goodbye), should we kissing her in the face?

I ask this because, doesn´t this could show a "just to be friends" situation?

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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When kissing a date its best to give them a kiss on the cheek, if you like. Go for the lips when the time is right.


The most important thing is to be comfortable doing it. If you are uncomfortable of hesitate with a kiss it looks bad. So do whats comfortable for you. You don't have to kiss them when you first meet.
 

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slaog said:
When kissing a date its best to give them a kiss on the cheek, if you like. Go for the lips when the time is right.


The most important thing is to be comfortable doing it. If you are uncomfortable of hesitate with a kiss it looks bad. So do whats comfortable for you. You don't have to kiss them when you first meet.

Hi, slaog!

That´s what I wrote. A kiss on the face:
"...when we see her at that place (or when we are saying goodbye),should we kiss her on the face?


So, your oppinion is that kissing her on the cheek doesn´t mean a "just be friends" situation? Isn´t that better just to smile and not to kiss?
 

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Lord Sidious said:
Hi, slaog!

That´s what I wrote. A kiss on the face:
"...when we see her at that place (or when we are saying goodbye),should we kiss her on the face?


So, your oppinion is that kissing her on the cheek doesn´t mean a "just be friends" situation? Isn´t that better just to smile and not to kiss?

It shows you are confident and you're being sexual.


Guy friends don't kiss their girl-friends. Gays kiss their girl-friends but thats ok because theres nothing sexual in it. Its the same reason why most guys don't kiss their girl-friends.


So its perfectly fine to kiss her but be confident doing it. :up:
 

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What? If I treat a girl to a good time I want my tongue down her throat.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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