"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Lord Sidious

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Hi, guys!

A situation in wich we have a date, or anything/anywere to do/go with a girl, when we see her at that place (or when we are saying goodbye), should we kissing her in the face?

I ask this because, doesn´t this could show a "just to be friends" situation?

Thanks
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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When kissing a date its best to give them a kiss on the cheek, if you like. Go for the lips when the time is right.


The most important thing is to be comfortable doing it. If you are uncomfortable of hesitate with a kiss it looks bad. So do whats comfortable for you. You don't have to kiss them when you first meet.
 

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slaog said:
When kissing a date its best to give them a kiss on the cheek, if you like. Go for the lips when the time is right.


The most important thing is to be comfortable doing it. If you are uncomfortable of hesitate with a kiss it looks bad. So do whats comfortable for you. You don't have to kiss them when you first meet.

Hi, slaog!

That´s what I wrote. A kiss on the face:
"...when we see her at that place (or when we are saying goodbye),should we kiss her on the face?


So, your oppinion is that kissing her on the cheek doesn´t mean a "just be friends" situation? Isn´t that better just to smile and not to kiss?
 

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Lord Sidious said:
Hi, slaog!

That´s what I wrote. A kiss on the face:
"...when we see her at that place (or when we are saying goodbye),should we kiss her on the face?


So, your oppinion is that kissing her on the cheek doesn´t mean a "just be friends" situation? Isn´t that better just to smile and not to kiss?

It shows you are confident and you're being sexual.


Guy friends don't kiss their girl-friends. Gays kiss their girl-friends but thats ok because theres nothing sexual in it. Its the same reason why most guys don't kiss their girl-friends.


So its perfectly fine to kiss her but be confident doing it. :up:
 

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What? If I treat a girl to a good time I want my tongue down her throat.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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