"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Kiss when have a cold?

Wannabe_DonJuan

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It's winter time, and like every year, I am just starting to get a cold (common cold virus).

If you have a girlfriend, do you refrain from kissing her until the cold goes away? Is this common? In fact, do you refrain from sex completely? I feel 95% fine, but I don't want to pass the cold on to her?

What have you guys done in the past? And for a girl with a cold, do you care if you catch it?

Wondering how to approach this one.....?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Climax

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what i would do..

If i have a cold, or she has a cold, i dont do anything sexual with her... actually, we normally dont really go near eachother when 1 of us have a sickness that is catchy.... but thats just me;)
 

SageOFAllenAge

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My girl exclaims "Oh no I have a cold, we wont be able to kiss", I just grab her & kiss her.
 

Vincent

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Well If your around her much to begin with you'll probably catch it as well. So either ignore her till she's better or just say screw it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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